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Thursday, October 2, 2008
11:55:14 AM PDT
PLEASE READ
Like all of you, I'm a bit distressed about having our journals shut down, but changes are part of life. I only have a few minutes but wanted to answer some questions sent me.
1- Will I keep in touch with all of you? How could I not? We're family, bound together through a friendship that has withstood many difficult times, and will withstand many more. We began this journey together, have many more years ahead of us, good years, though they will not all be easy ones. Life, as we know, runs on opposites: good and bad days, healthy and sick days, having a job- then losing it, birth- then death, etc. As Ecclesiastes 3: verse 6 says, there is " a time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away." It's time for us to let go now, to look ahead to the new moments that will be coming.
2- Will I still have journals? Yes! Can't imagine not writing. I have already created a new journal, titled "A New Beginning." Here is the link to it: A New Beginning
Just in case clicking on it doesn't work, click right here: http://barb-anewbeginning.blogspot.com
Please send me the links to your new journals too, if you decide to keep one. Blogspot is where most of us are going, so if you're uncertain as where to go, consider going here, okay? It would be so nice if we could all stay together. *Regarding this new journal of mine, please overlook the errors I'm sure to make while learning how to use new things. I'm still figuring things out, so don't feel I'm neglecting you if I don't respond as quickly or not doing something that makes reading my journal easier. I always appreciate help, so if you could point out something, please do. Like all of you, I want my journal to be readable, entertaining, contain supportive, uplifting words, and make sense.
3- Updates on my sister and Johnny.
I am still waiting on test results for my sister, and soon as I know what is going to be done, if anything, I will let you know. Can't thank you enough for prayers. They are the greatest gift of all. Johnny is not doing well, needs lots of prayer. I do too, especially right now.
4- Have I figured out how to save my journals? AOL Journals: Magic Smoke has been keeping up with all our questions regarding this, so check it out. My own way of saving my journals is this: I purchased what is called a USB, bought (Cruzer Micro (USB 2.0 Flash Drive)
You can purchase one for between $7.00- $50.00 I bought one for a little over $12, because that is all I needed; it's large enough to hold what I wish to save from my computer. This thing is awesome, a mere 3 to 4 inches long. You plug it in (requires no PC installation), follow instructions, and it takes off everything from your computer you choose to save. Once done, you remove it, put it aside till you want to retrieve the information. You can take it anywhere. For those of you still trying to figure out how to save your journals & maybe other stuff too, you may want to check this out. It's handy, inexpensive, and a great way to make sure you don't get caught off guard this way again. 5- Am I really alright? Would I say if I weren't? Yes, I am really okay, quite overwhelmed at the moment, with so much going on at home, as well as in J-Land, but okay. And yes, I would definitely tell you if it were not so. We're friends, and friends need support. I would appreciate prayer right now. I count on it because I know that God hears our prayers and honors our faith and trust in Him.
Gotta go. Have lots to take care of, but wanted to post first. Please don't forget to send me your new links if you decide to keep a journal. And if you don't, please keep in touch via email. And please, pass on this information to your friends, okay? I have lost some readers links due to computer glitches.
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Thursday, September 4, 2008
6:54:34 PM PDT
UPDATE ON MY SISTER

My sister got her test results back. The doctors found more cancer. She has an appointment tomorrow morning. Please keep her in your prayers. Her faith is good. I am so grateful for that, and for having all of you in my corner, and I know in hers.
I'll post again in a day or two. I promise! God bless you.

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12:28:12 PM PDT
I want to thank you for prayers for my family. My sister's surgery went well. She is home now, waiting for tests to see if she will need chemo or not, says the wait could be up to two weeks. I hope it is sooner. Waiting is difficult, especially for these kinds of things. Earlier, when our morning coffee was ready, I poured a cup and came into the computer room, wanting to update and to remind the readers of my story journal that I DO plan on getting it done. It's just tough trying to get to it with so much going on in our family. When I think about what they are coping with, sadness creeps in, wanting to settle upon me. I allow it to have it's rightful place, but don't give it too warm a welcome.Embracing hurts and negativeness prevents me from embracing things that could make me happy, could make me feel good..  . The picture above, for instance, came to mind when I decided to focus on things I love.My husband, Johnny, has brought me roses,for thirty-four years now, knowing how much I love them.They don't last long, but I don't mind; long after they're gone their fragrance continues to linger, if not in a room, within my heart.
Special treasures - we all have them; things that make us happy, keep us centered, remind us we're loved, that we matter, that we made it this far. It pays, I think, to focus upon them once in a while. I have many treasures,but the most valuable one, aside from my relationship to God, is my family.Too often we take them for granted, giving our best to strangers, assuming that our impatience, sarcasm, rudeness, indifference, is acceptable in our relationships with them. It isn't!. It took me a long time to learn to be honest with myself, about myself. It wasn't easy admitting, as well as facing, my faults. But once I did, my relationships improved,the quality of my life improved, and I grew in ways I'd never have expected to grow. I'm sharing this because many of you have expressed frustration, disappointment, anger and resentment within your relationships,have asked if I had any suggestions as to how to improve them. What I've learned from my own life experiences is that if I want change, I have to start with myself. Starting with myself meant treating others the way I wished to be treated,meant listening more and talking less, not interrupting. It meant being slow to anger and quick to forgive. It meant, when seeing another person's flaws of character, to remember my own. I had to learn to lower my expectations, of others, as well as myself, had to recognize that quality of life is better than quantity, and that people are more important than things. I've often said to you," Life is short- so create a beautiful memory." If I've ever regretted anything ,it is taking so long to recognize the wisdom in doing that.Not recognizing it cost me a lot, but learning it balanced my life, has taken the word "regret" out of my life- out of my heart, and off of my mind. Wherever you are today, whether having a good day, or a bad one, remind yourself how short life really is. Make every moment, every second count. Disaster can strike any second, can touch anybody's life, whether rich or poor. A family can have "it all" one minute, and lose it all the next. It is wise to give thanks for each days breath of life, for (everything) we have, to give thanks to God, who, no matter how badly we mess up our lives, is willing, as well as able to repair it again, usually better than it originally was.

Johnny and I are doing fantastic, happier than we've ever been. He is maintaining his weight, looking better, has more energy than he has had in a long time. I am doing okay, with the exception of my back, which at the moment is keeping me from doing what I want to do. We both see our doctors this month. I'm looking forward to it since it means I'll be able to get something to relieve my pain. We're enjoying being so close to our youngest son and his family.Their little girl, Jennifer Joy, turns three in January, and her middle name truly suits her.She doesn't call me "Grandma," gets upset when Johnny, her Daddy or Mommy call me that. She calls me "Sweetie." Gotta tell ya, it really touches my heart. We're so excited about the holidays this year, knowing that this time we'll be sharing them with family.
Well, dear ones, I hate making this so short but can't sit too long without hurting. Know you're always in my heart, and always in my prayers. Again, I want to thank you for your support, friendship, love, and prayers. I treasure each one of you.
Take care. Have an awesome,day.
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Tuesday, August 26, 2008
1:48:38 PM PDT
SPECIAL PRAYER REQUEST
I would appreciate prayers for my sister, the one diagnosed with cancer. She is scheduled for surgery tomorrow evening, the 27th. As well, I would appreciate continued prayers for my family. Many of them are going through things I have never had to experience. I know, that like my family members, many of you are also facing difficult things: loss of a loved one, loss of a job, problems with your children, marital problems, loneliness, health issues that oftentimes overwhelm you. Some of you have lost your homes, best friends, are facing things you feel you can't deal with. And far too many of you have loved ones overseas, some getting ready to be sent overseas. Life is hard - unbearably hard at times. But we'll all get through it. We will!
If we take a backward look we'll discover how far we've already come, and that, not solely from our own doing. God as always, continues to honor our faith and trust in him. He is always there when the sunshine is stolen from our life. ALWAYS!
I'm often asked how I manage to remain so optimistic midst my trials. The answer is that I never, ever, turn loose of HOPE...not ever!!
HOPE is the glue that can hold us together midst the worst of storms. Hold tight to it, no matter how hard the storm, how powerful the winds, how painful the trial, and God will see you safely through it.

Today, let's celebrate the breath of life, friendships, both old and new, and how far we've come with God's help and the support of one another. Let's celebrate the things that are going right, instead of focusing solely upon what's going wrong. Let's determine never to forget that one person can make a difference - and find out what that difference is for us.
Be happy today, guys & dolls. Life will always be
hard, but it won't rain every day, nor will every day be windy.
Thank you so much for the love and prayers. Life would have been so much more difficult without them. We are doing well, almost settled in our new place. Each morning I wake to quiet, each night give thanks for the beauty all around me. I am happier than I have ever been in my life. God is doing wonderful things in my life- and within my heart. What could be more wonderful than that?
FOOD FOR THOUGHT:
Reach for Excellence . . . . . . . . . . . . . Michael J. Fox
"The only thing that separates any one of us from excellence is fear and the opposite of fear is faith. I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for, perfection is God’s business." *************************************************************************

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Monday, August 11, 2008
12:56:12 PM PDT
SHORT UPDATE...HAVE MISSED ALL OF YOU

Before I say anything else I want to thank every one of you for your prayers, love, support, and friendship. Without it, the latest trials would have been much heavier- much more painful. Your cards, letters, emails and prayers reminded me of God's faithfulness; reminded me that life is good even midst the darkest of our moments. I discovered many things this past six months, the most precious thing being how dear I am to the Lord's heart. He not for one second left me alone. The times I felt alone were due to my own fretting. I had, as we all do from time-to- time, allowed discouragement (the sadness of what I was seeing), to sadden me. But once I turned to the Lord, he filled me up, more with Himself than ever before. Circumstances, in some cases, have not changed, but I have..and those changes have made me happier than I have ever thought possible. God asks so little- but gives so much, doesn't He? Even though my family's hearts were sad and very troubled, the Lord honored, as always, what faith we had. My Johnny has gained nine pounds, is not needing his oxygen quite as much, is sleeping better, and is once again full of HOPE. Sometimes we know what God has in mind for us, but more often don't; sometimes we are left in the dark. But my latest trials are something I needed. God used them to get me alone with Him, to get me to a quiet place , so I could better hear, and understand too, that which He was wanting to tell me.
Life is short, dear ones, passes by quicker than a wink, is here -than gone before we realize it. Because this is so, ought we not to better embrace each moment as it comes, making mental notes of those things that made the moments so terrific; things like * listening more, maybe better. Things like* seeing people through God's eyes, rather than through our own, remembering that like us, they are just imperfect men and women, trying to do their best?
It helps too, to remember, while going through major changes, painful changes, challenging changes, that not all changes are bad. If we take time to really look for them, we'll find blessings we overlooked, usually because our focus point was upon our sadness, our hurt, our circumstances, rather than upon HE who has the power, and is willing to help us.
For a short time I wished I could dig a hole, crawl into it and cover myself, hide so well I'd never be found. But what a waste of life that would have been. I'd not have grown in my spiritual walk, would not have grown in patience, compassion, nor come to understand the wisdom in praising the Lord for my trials as well as for my blessings. It does not come easy, but trust me, it definitely enriches ones life, enables heart and mind to both walk a straight line - much quicker, much easier.
 Say hello to life every morning, my friends. Wake up, grateful for the days breath of life, for those who love you, for the beauty around you, for all you've managed to accomplish thus far. Greet the new day reminding yourself that a new day offers a million new opportunities to do things better, new opportunities to become better people: better listeners, givers rather than takers, peacemakers, up lifters of the sorrowful, supporters of those in trouble, in need of a friend.
I am sorry this is such a short update but have just moved into our new home, and am still quite tired, though happy, still have a lot to do. We had to leave California before my sister had her surgery. Please keep praying for her. And for her husband and both of our daughters too.
I treasure every one of you, and thank you for your comments and prayers, your faithfulness, love and friendship. Take care of yourselves.It will be a little while yet before I am able to make it to all your journals, but will get to all of you, I promise!
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Reach for Excellence . . . . . . . . . . . Michael. Fox "The only thing that separates any one of us from excellence is fear and the opposite of fear is faith. I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for, perfection is God's business."
Must go now. Take care of yourselves.
Life is short so create beautiful memories today.
Much love, dear ones,
*My apologies for so many post alerts. Having a little bit of problem with computer.
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Saturday, May 10, 2008
12:43:32 PM PDT
Hi Guys & Dolls. I've missed you.

I'm sorry it has taken so long to get back to you. My intentions were to post much earlier than today, but life's interruptions made it too difficult. As well, many things have gone wrong since I last posted. Because they did, our move did not take place. It is a good thing in some ways - a bad thing in others, but life is what it is. In order to cope with hard things we have to be adaptable.
Our Daily Battles- Every one of us has something we are strugging with: unemployment, the loss of a child, marital difficulties, health problems, problems with our children, the frustrations that come with getting older, the heaviness of loneliness, or perhaps low self-esteem. As difficult as our problem may be, it helps to remember that it isn't the problem that raises our stress level, but our reaction to it. What helps me the most, during my darkest moments, is reminding myself of all the mountains I've climbed - mountains I believed too tall -way beyond my capabilities. If today finds you in a dark place, remind yourself of the mountains you have climbed, of how far you have come- of all you have done well. And then count your blessings. There are many, I promise. But sometimes, if we're going through an especially difficult time they're hard to see. It may take us a bit longer to find them.

I always told my children that people are more important than things. If you want to support those you care about, you'll enjoy reading the following:
by Michael Angier
One of the greatest responsibilities we have is to support ourselves and others in living at our highest and best. Whether we’re parents, partners, friends or leaders, it’s incumbent upon us to help others to live as close to their unique potential as we can.
With everything we say and do, we’re influencing, positively or negatively, the people we care about. The ideal is to do this with consideration and intention. Here are ten ways you can help others see and realize the best that’s within them.
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Believe in Them: We all have self-doubts from time to time. Our confidence is shaken. We lack the faith in our talents and skills to go for an important promotion or launch a new initiative. Having someone believe in you at these times is priceless. The stories of great men and women are saturated with examples of someone who believed in them even when they didn’t fully believe in themselves.
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Encourage Them: "You can do it. I know you can." These are words that are all-too-infrequently voiced. Sincere encouragement can go a long way in helping someone stay the course. The more specific you are, the better the results. "I remember when you got through your slump last year and ended up winning the sales contest. I’m willing to bet that you’ll do even better this time."
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Expect a Lot: We’re often told not to get our hopes up. We’re encouraged to have realistic expectations. But when it comes to helping others operate at their best, we sometimes have to up-level our expectations. This can be taken to extremes, but there are many times when a teacher, a parent or even a boss has required more of us than we thought we were capable. And we’ve risen to the challenge which enabled us to see further than before.
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Tell the Truth: And tell it with compassion. We often avoid telling the hard truth because we don’t want to upset anyone. We want to be nice. But telling the truth is a loving act. You may be the only person who can or will say to another what needs to be said. And you can confront someone without being combative.
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Be a Role Model: One of the best ways we influence is by our own actions. Who we are speaks much more loudly than what we say. Don’t think that people aren’t watching you. They are. And they’re registering everything about you consciously and unconsciously. We automatically emulate our role models. And we’re all role models to someone so let’s be good ones.
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Share Yourself: Too often, we miss the value of sharing our failings. We don’t want to be vulnerable so we hold back. In doing so, we deprive others of our experience, our learning and our humanity. When you share from your own experience, especially your failures, you increase empathy, you’re more approachable and you increase your relatability to others.
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Challenge Them: The word "challenge" has some negative connotations. The meaning we’re using here is, "a test of one’s abilities or resources in a demanding but stimulating undertaking." We all need to be challenged from time to time. Doing it for another is an art form. Go too far and it will backfire. Go too easy and you will appear patronizing. Remind people of their commitment to being their best and state your challenge. "I challenge you to overcome these unimportant opinions and get on with the real task at hand, get the job done, make the commitment, etc."
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Ask Good Questions: A good therapist or coach doesn’t tell their clients what to do. They ask good questions in order for the client to understand themselves better, to get clear on what the issue is and from there to make good choices. You can do the same. By asking elegant questions, you cause people to think and come up with solutions. They’ll appreciate it.
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Acknowledge Them: You find what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for the best in someone, you’ll see it. If you’re looking for their failings, you’ll see those. Catch people doing things right and tell them. When we acknowledge the good deeds of others, they tend to do more of them. Write a note. Send a card. Give them a call. Praise them in front of others.
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Spend Time With Them: We love what we give our time to. By devoting your most precious resource (time) to another individual, you’re showing them that you truly value them and your relationship with them. Invest time in your relationships; it’s what life is made of. **********************************************
Well, dear ones, I hope each of you realizes how greatly I treasure your friendship. And I want to thank you for taking time to share your life with me. Every time I read your entries I learn something of value; a way of viewing something differently, something to help me grow as an individual. And each time I read what you write I realize how much SUN you've brought into my life, how much you've colored it.
Thank you for your prayers, your friendship, and support. Without it my trials would have felt much heavier, my lonely moments..much more hurting. Johnny is not doing very well, so keep him in your prayers as always. And please keep my children in your prayers too.
LIFE IS SHORT...SO CREATE A BEAUTIFUL MEMORY TODAY.

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Sunday, February 10, 2008
1:49:57 PM PST
TAKING A JOURNAL BREAK
I'm going to take a journal break, one which may last for several months. I hope it doesn't last that long, but it may.The main reason I'm taking this break is because I'm in so much pain right now, and my pain meds are not helping much. The second reason for the break is because we will be moving by the first part of April. Moving doesn't leave much time for Internet use. Between packing, the actual move, settling in and hurting so much, I won't really feel much like being online. I'm sorry I've not posted much, and especially sorry I've missed so many of your entries. Can't promise when I'll catch up. Right now I feel so rotten that all I want to do is stay in bed.
Take care of yourselves. I will miss you very much.
A reminder: Don't forget to do something nice for somebody.
Taking note of what's happening around us offers us opportunities to bless others. Once, while my husband and I were truckers, we were eating dinner at a truck stop. The place was very busy and our waitress was almost in tears. She spilled the water, called our order in wrong, but explained she was new and doing her best. I told her not to worry about it, that new jobs are difficult. I heard her reply softly when people yelled at her, saw her wipe tears from her face many times, but she kept serving people, doing the best she could. When I was finished eating, I went to the register stand where they sold these assorted magnets with wonderful sayings on them. I bought the waitress one that had a red rose on it, and the words, "I so admire strong people." I put it in a small bag and tucked a note in with it that said," When you wake up tomorrow, today will be behind you, and the job will be much easier. I think you did a great job on your first day." I handed her the bag before we left, didn't have time to wait to see what her reaction was, but I'm pretty sure I know. Many years ago, a man went out of his way to tell me I'd done a great job on MY first day at work. I never forgot how that made me feel, how much confidence it gave me.

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Sunday, January 13, 2008
12:00:18 PM PST
JUST SORTING THINGS OUT FOR MYSELF
What things? Love mostly.
I heard a man say "We see what we love." Is this not true? We do! We truly do! We're not drawn to things that repel us, that upset us, that make us crazy, but to those things that make us smile, laugh, feel good inside; to things that allow us to experience to the utmost, our sense of touch, sight, smell, hearing, and taste. I heard, many years ago, a friend say," My scale says I weigh 172, Barb, but I feel much heavier. His tone, when he spoke, was sad, troubled, made me think, rather than of his body weight, how we sometimes make mountains out of ant hills. The thought reminded me of the same man who made the remark about love. He said too: "We ought to follow what we love and give away what we don't need, like anger, sadness, fear, and those anxious feelings that steal our joy away. What we find ourselves loving says a lot about the kind of people we are, and teaches us things too (about God, others, life, nature, and ourselves). I wish I could remember all that this man said. But I can't. But it doesn't matter really, because the things that stayed with me obviously are things that have helped me grow. are things I needed to hear, to learn from. One of the things I remember him saying was: "What we tend too will grow." Six small words, but words that can change the quality of our lives if we allow them too. I need to allow them to. And I need to give myself permission to follow after my dreams, rather than walk in another man's footsteps. When we live life according to what God says love is, we soon discover how much we've been missing in our life. This is true of me, and perhaps some of you. We live our life according to how we've been raised, according to what others have taught us, according to what others tell us is the right thing to do. But every man is accountable for himself- for what he says- what he does.
Kindly overlook this entry if it makes no sense to you. I am writing it for myself. I have backed myself into a corner and this is my way of finding the right, appropriate, best, easiest, most fair exit. Sorting out what is going through my head enables me to get back on track. So...continuing.... My next thought (not being morbid here) is about death. The Bible tells us that our days are numbered, and I believe this, so what then, must I do, if I wish to live out my life in a good, positive, helpful way? I think the answer would be," Realizing how short life actually is, that it is as a vapor - here then gone, I'd be wise to use my time well; to not forget how important every conversation, every embrace, every kiss, every action, every opportunity is. I would put to use that which I have learned. Doing this would make me a better listener, more kind, more gentle, more tolerant, more patient. It would enable me to brighten my corner of the world. The best things in life are simple things; those things that cost nothing, things we too often take for granted. Appreciating the simple things in life: cooking, interacting with our families, gardening, painting, hiking, listening to our favorite music, chatting with a friends, reading the latest book (whatever brings a smile to our face, makes us more pleasant to be around). Now, not tomorrow, is the time to contemplate the legacy I will be leaving behind. Now- not tomorrow, or next week, is the time to stand up and be counted, even if that means disappointing people who love me and admire me.
It is time I took care of myself, time I treat myself with as much compassion and gentleness as I do others: and it is time to do it without feeling guilty. People remember the good done to them, as well as the bad, so I will have no regrets. When I look in the mirror at the end of the day, and ask myself, "Have you done your best?" the answer will be yes. A question for my readers:
If you told yourselves "I could die today," and believed the possibility of it, then TODAY would be a gift, wouldn't it? If you believe, as I do, that it's true, then wouldn't it be wise to reconsider how you have been living out the moments of your days?
Please be reassured that I am not depressed - have been
most of the past two weeks but God has brought me out of those dark moments, is enabling me to walk a better path, a healthier, better one. As for the love, prayers, and friendship you've given me and my family...

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Thursday, January 10, 2008
11:21:16 AM PST
THANK YOU
I have such wonderful news. Our prayers have been answered. Our daughter was unable to raise the full amount the lawyer asked for, but God answered our prayers. The lawyer agreed to not only accept the money she was able to raise, but lowered the total amount from $50,000, to $15,000. Only God could have brought this about.He is so faithful, always honoring our faith. Thank you so much for praying with us in this matter. I appreciate every one of you so much. I'm not feeling well so won't be posting for awhile, but had to let you know how faithful God is. ******************************************** A little food for thought till I return:
It's much more fun,
and contagious. It isn't always easy to be happy when we're going through trials, but remember - trials last longest when they are our point of focus.
Life rewards good choices,punishes us for bad ones, so it pays to think before speaking or doing something.
Treat yourself as gently as you treat others: you'll not only be happier- but healthier.
People are more important than things.
If you've done your best, it's good enough.
Life is short.... Create a beautiful memory today.
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Sunday, January 6, 2008
12:58:31 PM PST
GOOD MORNING, GUYS & DOLLS

Hope this day is all you desire it to be. Remember that a man will be as happy as he's a mind to be. It all comes down to choice
Thank you for the wonderful Anniversary cards, emails, and graphics you sent us. We loved every one of them. Our Anniversary was wonderful, one of the best. As we usually do, we sat up for most of the night talking, remembering special times. Then, at midnight, we put on the watches we'd bought for each other. I so love them. Every time I check the time I see the words: "I Believe" ...all things are possible if you only believe." Seeing those words several times a day is such a blessing, especially now, when times are so tough.

So many of you have written, saying how you wish you knew a way to stay on track; a way to lower your stress level. The Happines list below is one I came across a few years back. It's contents are helpful - have improved the quality of my life. Hope it does the same for you. ***************************************************
Alphabets Of Happiness
A--Accept Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
B--Break Away Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
C--Create Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D--Decide Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E--Explore Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.
F--Forgive Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G--Grow Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H--Hope Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I--Ignore Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J--Journey Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.
K--Know Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L--Love Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.
M--Manage Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N--Notice Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding
O--Open Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.
P--Play Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q--Question Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.
R--Relax Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S--Share Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T--Try Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U--Use Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.
V--Value Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W--Work Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X--X-Ray Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y--Yield Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.
Z--Zoom Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rear a ugly head. **************************************************************
Have an Awesome day. love you...
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