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Thursday, April 10, 2008
6:33:00 AM EDT
It never ceases to amaze me on how some people seem to revel in doing things the hard way, or making excuses as to why they cannot do something at all.
If it is losing weight – why not just exercise and consume more calories than you ingest? No special medications or expensive programs.
If it is quitting smoking – why not just come up with a plan and stick to it. Some may feel the need for additional aids, and that is OK, but the thing is, you need to really want to quit.
If it is financial – why not just develop a budget where your “comes in” exceeds your “goes out.” This make take some effort to focus on the higher interest debts first, and cutting out some things that are “wants” but not “needs”.
If it is responding to a simple request from someone you are angry with – why not just look at the options and pick one. A lot of negative energy finding reasons to not cooperate, or simply ignoring the request is counterproductive and will only result in more resentment and anger. It is easier in the long run to find a way to resolve differences than to keep up the charade of partial cooperation.
I realize that this may be perceived as an oversimplification. But I ask, are your objections real – or are they “victim” statements. Sometimes, people expend more energy rationalizing why they can’t or won’t do something, than they would spend just getting started. What it really comes down to is mindset. You first need to really want to achieve the results of the action. Then, you must have the discipline to sit down and develop a plan. This plan must include some early and achievable goals, to get quick victories. This may take some research, but that makes it more likely to be achieved than just “winging it”.
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6:33:00 AM EDT
The Hard Way
If it is losing weight – why not just exercise and consume more calories than you ingest? No special medications or expensive programs.
If it is quitting smoking – why not just come up with a plan and stick to it. Some may feel the need for additional aids, and that is OK, but the thing is, you need to really want to quit.
If it is financial – why not just develop a budget where your “comes in” exceeds your “goes out.” This make take some effort to focus on the higher interest debts first, and cutting out some things that are “wants” but not “needs”.
If it is responding to a simple request from someone you are angry with – why not just look at the options and pick one. A lot of negative energy finding reasons to not cooperate, or simply ignoring the request is counterproductive and will only result in more resentment and anger. It is easier in the long run to find a way to resolve differences than to keep up the charade of partial cooperation.
I realize that this may be perceived as an oversimplification. But I ask, are your objections real – or are they “victim” statements. Sometimes, people expend more energy rationalizing why they can’t or won’t do something, than they would spend just getting started. What it really comes down to is mindset. You first need to really want to achieve the results of the action. Then, you must have the discipline to sit down and develop a plan. This plan must include some early and achievable goals, to get quick victories. This may take some research, but that makes it more likely to be achieved than just “winging it”.
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Excellent entry! You're right!
Congrats on being chosen as one of Dan's guest editor picks!
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Oh, what an EXCELLENT entry. I just love it. And congrats, bucko, for being chosen a Guest Editor's Pick!
Krissy :)
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Great entry! Congratulation's on being chosen as Guest Editor's Pick. Love Pam xx
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Simplicity is never as easy as it seems. Yes, I'm aware that was an oxymoronic statement. In all fairness there are quite a few people who have mental stumbling blocks who can't quite grasp willpower. As in anything that is long standing, it doesn't often go as quickly as is desired. If it took 30 years to build a habit, many times it won't be cured in a day.
I truly do believe the first hurdle is - you have to WANT the change in order to make it a reality. If you approach it half assed of course the results will match your approach. I had to want to change my lifestyle in order to give up drinking and smoking. Until I crossed that bridge it wasn't going to happen. By the way I've passed my 6 months mark with the no smoking. I've gotten to the point of not being able to stand the smell of it.
Wonderful post all in all. Unfortunately not everything can be handled with a Forrest Gump outlook on life. By the way congratulations on being guest editor pick. You were a wonderful choice. (Hugs) Indigo
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4/20/08 3:13 AM
but, as always, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
be blessed,
regina