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Headache
Ok maybe it's because my insomnia seems to be rearing it's ugly head again....but after another very sleepless night my head is banging! ARGH! There is so much I need to get done around the house. I have just been in a funk about everything. I just don't want to be bothered with anything. I know there are 50 thousand things for me to get done here at the house but no motivation means it more than likely pile up more.
For some reason last night James tried to get intimate with me and it just really turned me off. All I kept thinking about was the "movies" and it made me sick. So he kept on trying this morning and that just pissed me off. I just don't want anything to do with that aspect. Why must it be so important to men? There are much more important things in life, but to men it's everything. Maybe we should work on honesty first....just a thought.
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I wouldn't say ALL men. LOL not saying my husband is a lame duck in the bedroom or anything, but our daily lives and interaction consist of WAY more than just that. I also don't know that dishonestly lies soley to the male side of the aisle either. I have met more than my fair share of lying females! lol. BUt I think with most PEOPLE in general the main idea is to not get caught doing something they shouldn't be and if they do, then to figure out how to absorb the least amount of blame/punishment/flack for having done it to begin with.
PS, your pie looks really nice! -
For women sex is so much about the emotional side of things. For men it's as much a physical release as having a really good pee. I've always loved a good romp in the sack but since I married Michael I really need the full meal deal... it's got to be the total emotional and physical thing or I just don't want to be bothered. However... for me... I need to feel connected with him in that intimate way. It sort of seals the deal for me.
Sorry you're having trouble sleeping... I have to take something to sleep or I'd never sleep. I get in those vicious unhealthy sleep cycles and feel like I'm in a fog. Hope you get some rest soon!
love and hugs!
heather -
Sex is often more important to men, and it really should be just as important to us wives. Trust me when I say this is a HUGE struggle for me. I'm taking a bible study class on JUST this! The book we're reading is called: Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus. Seriously I HIGHLY recommend it. It's shown me so much, especially about what God tells us through the bible on this subject. Unlike women, men truly NEED that release where us women really can go sometimes weeks to months without it (which is good when we're military wives, but....when hubby's home not so good!) Anyways, it's been a great book, it's been a definate work in progress as far as changing my thinking and attitude on sex, etc.
God Bless
Christy -
I'm so sorry about your headache/insomnia; I suffer from nights with insomnia too so I know what you are going through; I can only hope you have the best day you can have today; it is hard sometimes living with men, isn't it?? been married 27 years and still trying to figure out why men do the things they do (and I'm sure they are trying to figure us out too)
betty
3/5/08 3:12 AM