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Monday, June 23, 2008
9:09:27 AM CDT
Feeling Grateful
Hearing Everlast~What It's Like

Happy Monday!!


We had a pretty leisurely weekend at Casa Gillen and it was much needed after day camp week!! 

The Prince had flight camp this week and he loved it!  I loved having a bit of free time but did not particularly like the driving time required.  The camp was over 25 miles away from my house.  So I was driving 100 miles a day and sitting over two hours in the car to take him to and from camp!  The morning drive came early!  We had to be up by 6:45 to be out the door by 7:25 (we could have left a bit later but I HAD to stop and get coffee!!).  He had a really good time there and wants to try a different camp from there next year so in the end I guess it was all worth it.  Apparently two tanks of gas=happiness!! 

Saturday we had a couple of things we needed to pick up at the store.  The Price was not thrilled~he does not like to shop!  Luckily for him he got a reprieve.  A mom of one of his friends called and asked if they could take him to Bounce U for the afternoon~SCORE!!  We went out for a quick family lunch (Buffalo Wild Wings) and then came home and The Prince left with his friend.  It was 2:00 and we had until 5:00 to enjoy our freedom! 

Hubby and I went to Lowe’s to buy painting supplies.  The work is finally done (except for a small leak in the shower that they better come fix today!) and we need to paint the new closet!  Then we went to JCPenney~BIG Sale!!  Hubby got some clothes and I got new bathroom carpets.  I had been having a lot of trouble with this because the bathroom is so small and the way it is laid out you need pretty small carpets.  I was so excited to find them!  I had looked at quiet a few places and had about given up and was ready to buy a bigger bath mat and cut it down.  I also bought The Prince some new shirts.  A while back I bought some really cute “save our planet” and “green” shirts and The Prince really wanted an “earth” shirt too.  They had some really cute ones for boys.  Then we went to Gordman’s to look for some bath stuff (no dice) and then to Bed Bath & Beyond~we bought bathroom stuff~a garbage can and a shelf for under the vanity.  As we were walking into Bed Bath & Beyond my phone rang and I thought our expedition was over but they wanted to keep The Prince until later.  YEAH!!!  So we got to do some more shopping (my favorite thing).  After BBB we went to TJ Maxx.  I found a toilet paper holder for the bathroom and some monkey bread mix.  Then we decided to grab something to eat~a little mini date at Fatburger!   We had a nice time just laughing and eating.  Then it was time to go home.  The Prince came home about 8:00 and he had a great time!! 

I spent the evening on the phone with my friend Kelli.  She is having some pretty big personal drama right now so we talked and talked and by the end of the conversation she was begging me to come visit.  She guilted me big time!  I have not been home for 12 years.  Hubby said he would buy me a ticket for my birthday so I am booking a ticket to Tampa for my birthday!  I have been avoiding going home for so long now.  I have put on so much weight in the last ten years that I didn’t want any of them to see me this way~but as I have no huge desire or ambition to go on a diet and lose all this weight I figured I couldn’t put it off forever.  So my summer of travel continues!! 

Yesterday we lounged around and had quite a lot of pool time.  It was wonderful.  The weather has been so odd lately that we haven’t really gotten to be in the pool much this summer.  Today (and this week) it is supposed to be warm and sunny so hopefully we will be able to spend a lot of time in the pool.  I am off to do some laundry. 

Happy Monday!!



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Wednesday, June 18, 2008
9:08:28 PM CDT
Feeling Chillin'
Hearing Jon & Kate Plus 8

Father's Day Weekend


This week has been pretty quiet. 

The Prince has been at day camp all week.  He is really enjoying it and I am enjoying having a little quiet (albeit emotional) time. 

We had a great Father’s Day weekend. 

We started our festivities on Friday night where Hubby received his first gift~a fire pit! 


He put it together. 


We fired it up.


He then got his second gift! 


The makings for S'mores! 

Jill~not interested in marshmallows...


But definetely interested in graham crackers!


Yummy~S'mores goodness!!


We had a good time. 

Saturday was family time…a little cleaning, some yard work, some pool time and some Wii time~a good day! 

Sunday morning Hubby got to open the rest of his gifts.  The Prince gave him some new grill tools.  Jill gave him two books…Bad Cat and Bad Baby.  I gave him some cologne (Passion for Men~my absolute favorite and Armani Code) and the new Augusten Burroughs book and the new David Sedaris book.  He was very pleased.  We had the family over for a cookout.  It was a nice time. 

SIL brought over the discs from the wedding photographer. 

Here are a few pics of The Prince!

That is all for tonight. 

Thank you all for your kind words and comments on my last entry.  I really appreciate all of you!! 

Oh yeah…we got shower doors!!!





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Tuesday, June 17, 2008
10:20:32 AM CDT
Feeling Jealous
Hearing Rich Mullins~Hold Me Jesus

Milestones


Pregnancy is a celebration of dates. 

Every week and every month mean big happy changes. 

After a miscarriage those same celebrations become silent markers of what might have been. 

I would be over five months pregnant now. 

I would be nice and round and getting fat! 

I would be thinking about decorating the nursery instead of obsessing about my bathroom and new closet. 

These markers tick by every month until what would have been my due date. 

Then there are the two "anniversaries" that are never forgotten. 

Due Date and Miscarriage Date. 

Both dates are forever written on my heart. 

This week is three years since my first miscarriage. 

It is hard to believe that had that not happened I would have a two and a half year old right now! 

I truly believe things happen the way they are supposed to but it does not stop me from questioning God and asking Why? Why? Why? 

I am really working on being happy and content with my life. 

Most days I am. 

I have moved on somewhat. 

I put all the grieving and miscarriage books away (I may need to get them back out though).

I try and focus on being present and engaged in my life right now…but some days it is harder than others. 

I spent a lot of time on the phone with my MIL yesterday.  She was very upset about something and I was letting her vent.  I am glad we have such a good relationship (especially because I do not have one with my own mother) and that I can be there for her but it is easy to get sucked into the negativity.  She shared a lot of stuff (good and bad) and was on quite a rant.  I listened.  I soothed.  I tried to help her as best I knew how and when I got off the phone with her last night I was in a funk. 

I talked to Hubby a bit about it but I didn’t want to detail too much of the drama with him because MIL was venting to me because she doesn’t want her boys involved (they get pretty protective and try to jump in and fix things and with this issue there is nothing that can be changed~she just needed to vent). 

I haven’t necessarily been in the best place this last week anyway. 

The tornado injuries and my friend’s son’s involvement really hit me pretty hard.  On a side note~the prognosis is MUCH better than first thought.  He has been moved from the hospital in Sioux City to one in Omaha and though the injuries are serious they are not as life altering as initially thought!

Then yesterday a friend called to tell me she was pregnant. 

This morning I saw another friend who is pregnant and has my same due date.  It was really hard to see her and be happy for her.  It was hard to actually SEE how pregnant I should be right now!  I was so jealous I could just spit! 

I am sitting here at Grammy's house.  It is empty and I am waiting for the bank appraiser to show for the sale.  It is so sad to be in the house now but it is the perfect place to sit and cry.

My heart just hurts today.  It hurts for me but it hurts for my MIL as well.  She has been through so much in the last year and I think now with the wedding over and her mother's house being sold all the sh*t is coming to a culmination and the grief is really settling in.

It is what it is and I can’t change the situation but I still wish I could.  I know God knows best but today I am praying for a wisdom and peace.


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Friday, June 13, 2008
9:08:57 AM CDT
Feeling Quiet
Hearing The Prince playing Legos

The Next Day


A new morning and things are better. 

It is so sad. 

Hubby’s friend’s son is doing well.  He had only minor injuries.  I saw him last night on the NBS Nightly News with Ann Curry (his dad said she was very plastic) and he did Larry King Live (Larry asked some pretty stupid questions!)!!  He really wanted to do the shows.  I think it really helped him open up and talk about it.  I know his dad indicated that they were pretty exhausted last night.  I think today will be a harder day for them as things start to sink in and the shock wears off. 

My friend’s son is doing better but is still in pretty serious condition.  Even though I have not used any names, to respect their privacy I do not want to put to much information out here as there are many names that have still not been released.  Hopefully we will get better news today but whatever the news this young man has a pretty long recovery ahead of him. 

The whole thing is just so sad and scary.  I was glued to the television yesterday morning watching all the coverage (thankfully The Prince was at day camp).  I cried all morning.  I finally had to turn the television off and just sit quietly. 

I am really scared of tornadoes…pretty paranoid (okay...seriously paranoid~I totally freak out).  I am a manic watcher of the weather coverage in bad weather and am always hunkered down in our basement.  I try to be visibly calm about it for The Prince but inside I am terrified in a tornado warning and then to have two tornadoes in the area in less than a week!

As a parent this whole thing has really resonated with me.  It is hard enough to send you kids away to camp and then to have your worst fears realized...it makes your heart hurt.

These families all have quite a long road ahead of them. 

Please keep them in your prayers.



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Thursday, June 12, 2008
8:44:58 AM CDT
Feeling Sad
Hearing The news

Sad


It’s an incredibly sad morning. 

I have been glued to the television watching the tornado coverage.

We know two families (a close friend of mine and Hubby’s best friend) who had boys at the Boy Scout camp that was demolished last night in a tornado. 

One of the boys was on the news this morning and is fine. He spoke beautifully and was very composed.  It was a great relief to see him.

The other boy is in the hospital with very serious injuries.  His family is obviously devastated.

Please keep these families in your prayers.  There are many injuries and four young men lost their lives.



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Wednesday, June 11, 2008
8:48:47 AM CDT
Feeling Relaxed
Hearing Katy Perry~I Kissed a Girl

Momma Time!!


Another quiet morning!! 

Hubby & The Prince just left…Hubby for work and The Prince for day camp! 

A day without The Prince means one thing for Momma…SHOPPING!!! 

As for The Naked Prince, the story is not as amusing as the visual (I so wish I had taken a picture).  On closer inspection he was FILTHY!!  He was pretty covered in dirt.  MIL took him to a park close to her house and the circle around the merry-go-round was still underwater and he decided to play in it.  The permissiveness of Grandma!  So they walked back to her house and she stripped him and hosed him off and wrapped him in a towel and brought him home.  If I thought he was filthy when I brought him home I can just imagine what he looked like before she hosed him off! 

Since I am caught up and things are back to normal...I am back to sharing my distractions...

New to the iPod


Just Read


Currently Reading


Just Watched DVD


Just Watched at the Movies


New to the DVR


I am off to take a shower before the contractor gets here and then…it’s time to go shopping!!



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Tuesday, June 10, 2008
1:16:49 PM CDT
Feeling Blissful
Hearing Sonic Youth~Kool Thing

The Final Catch-up Entry 6/2-6/10


My MIL just took the boy out for the afternoon so I get a little quiet Mommy time!!  Yeah!!! 

The contractor just left.  There was nothing he could do on the closet because the drywall mud is not dry yet!  He will be back first thing in the morning.  The shower doors will be installed Thursday morning!!  I will be able to use my shower this week!!! 

After the wedding things slowed up a bit…thankfully!  Last week The Prince and I did a lot of things around the house. 

Somewhere there is a young girl who is going to be a very happy wife to my son...





I did spend A LOT of time online looking at hotels and driving routes.  We are taking a family trip to Montana the 4th of July weekend.  The Prince and I are going to Oklahoma the weekend after that and I am going to Atlanta the first weekend in August.  We have figured out the Montana trip fairly well.  We will be staying in South Dakota one night to see Mount Rushmore and all of that and will be in Montana for the 4th weekend.  We haven’t figured out the route home yet.  We are thinking about going through Wyoming and Western Nebraska to hit Chimney Rock and a couple other sites.  We are still figuring that out.  Oklahoma was a bit easier.  We are heading out Thursday (My MIL will be coming with us) and will get my business done Friday morning and then we will head to Tahlequah on Friday afternoon and back to Tulsa that evening.  My SIL and my nephews are coming in from Texas to stay the night on Saturday and will leave Sunday afternoon.  I found a hotel with a waterpark in it for us!!  We will leave Monday morning to go to Oklahoma City to see MIL’s niece.  It will be a jam packed trip!! 

The Prince graduated to another belt in tae kwon do and this brought out a new set of issues.  The class times were awful.  The classes during the week are all LATE in the evening (6:45 and after) so they wouldn’t be done until after 8:00 if classes started on time.  The Prince has focus issues in the evening (ADHD stuff).  We thought we were going to have to quit but after talking to the office manager (also our neighbor) he indicated that The Prince could do an individual lesson once a week and then do the Saturday class.  I was not sure at first because I wasn’t going to pay anything additional but there is no extra charge.  They have an instructor there anyway and since we are not coming to the other weekly classes but we have to pay for them anyway this class would take its place.  He started last week and now has a private lesson every Tuesday at 5:00.  It is perfect.  He gets some one on one attention (desperately needed) during the week and still gets a regular class on Saturday.  We will see how it works out for the summer and reevaluate once school starts. 

We had some sad news last week.  My MIL & FIL’s dog Tupelo had to be put down.  There are pretty devastated and my FIL is just lost.  His life revolved around that dog.  I was so sad for them.  I made them a carrot cake…I was kind of at a loss for what to do for them or say to them…when in doubt…BAKE!!  



I actually made two of these...Hubby had to have one too!

This weekend we finally got to get in the pool!!  We opened the pool in mid-May but the weather has been so squirrely that we have not been able to use it.  Saturday it was finally hot enough~92°~and no rain was expected for the afternoon so we were able to get it.  I got a little burnt but the boy is already starting to tan!! 










He had a great time. 

So did Jill.



She is in my lap on a lounge chair under the umbrella.  The life of doggeh leisure in the lap of luxury!!

Sunday it wasn’t even 70° and it was overcast but The Prince still wanted to get in the pool.  The water was a balmy 77°~BRRRR!  He is such a water baby!! 

We had some really bad storms come through on Saturday night.  A neighboring community had a tornado touch down.  I went to see the Sex and the City movie (AWESOME) with my friend Stephanie on Sunday morning and had to drive through the damaged area.  It was very surreal to see. 

I am all caught up now.  I have posted all pictures and told all my stories!!  My MIL just brought The Prince home and he is wearing only his crocs and a towel.  I don't see his clothes anywhere...I am guessing there is a story here...


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12:21:50 PM CDT
Feeling Happy
Hearing Echo and the Bunneymen~Never Stop

Wedding Week 5/27-6/1


Wedding week was also The Prince’s first week of summer vacation. 

He has had a pretty good time so far.

Playing...my house looks like the Lego store exploded in here!


Puzzles


Reading...he joined the summer reading program at the library.  He earns prizes for so many hours read.  He is pretty excited.  He did it last year and couldn’t wait to sign up this year. 


Fighting the sprinkler


Lunch at his favorite...oh I mean fourth favorite restaurant.


But most of the week and weekend were tied up with wedding activities. 

Thursday was the rehearsal dinner.  They so needed a rehearsal.  There were 6 bridesmaids and groomsmen, a junior bridesmaid and 2 ring bearers.  They needed to practice.

The Ring bearer


The Groom and The Prince

The boys were so good!!  Then we went to dinner at Lucky’s.  They have the best margaritas!  All I will say is that I had more than one!  I will also say that I was not the only one who indulged…LOL! 

The Ringbearers opening their gifts.


The Groom and his brother...Boilermakers...YUCK!!


Me & MIL

Weird Brothers!

The Groom and his nephews


The big day was on Saturday.  We had to be there at 11:30 for pictures.  It was a long morning!  The ceremony was at 1:30 and it was beautiful.

Ringbearers reporting for duty!


Moi & my pride and joy!


FIL & The Prince


Handsome Hubby


Happy Groom


The Ceremony


Me & MIL


Me & GIL (Girlfriend-in-law)


It is hard to believe that they finally got married.  Hubby and I have been married for 11 years and the bride was at our wedding reception…that is how long they have been together!!  MIL and I both have had a hard time wrapping our heads around it.  In my mind they are both kids and not old enough to get married…nevermind that BIL is 31…LOL!!  The wedding was held in a beautiful church…the oldest church in Nebraska…the only issue being that because it was the oldest church it does not have the best air conditioning system.  It was a bit hot.  Luckily the reception was not until 4:30.  I usually hate when a wedding and a reception are split but it was nice to be able to come and take off our party clothes and cool off for a bit.  The reception was beautiful as well. 

Beautiful Bride


Involved with Gillen boys

Danging Machine!  Look how sweaty he is!!


Breakdancing!


We had a great time but when it was time to go it was time to go.  I was exhausted!! 

Sunday morning we had a family brunch to watch them open wedding gifts.  It was fun to see all the gifts!! 

Monday came and I think we were all glad it was all over.  It was a fun time and really beautiful but it reminded me again that we were smart going to Vegas to get married! 

Next entry will be the final catch-up entry!!  Stay tuned!!



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10:11:49 AM CDT
Feeling Groggy
Hearing 10,000 Maniacs~What's the Matter Here?

Catch-up Entry 5/19-5/26


It’s quiet so far this morning.  The Prince is laying in my bed just waking up watching a little Cash Cab (he LOVES that show!!) and I am enjoying a little coffee.  Hubby is a saint.  We are both fighting a serious allergy haze and I was not exceptionally alert this morning when he left for work.  I heard the garage opening and there he was Starbucks in hand.  I love my man!!  The contractor is not here yet.  He worked all day yesterday on the downstairs closet.  He will work on that again today.  No bathroom work yesterday.  The shower doors weren’t done yesterday…hopefully…fingers crossed…today.  I figured I better get caught up or I’ll never get caught up. 

The week of 5/19 was The Prince’s last week of school.  It was a busy week for both of us.

On Monday they went on a field trip (they hadn’t been on a field trip all year and in the last three weeks of school they did three…wouldn’t it make sense to spread those out? LOL!!). 

On Tuesday I had a procedure at my friendly endoscopy center (scope & dilation on my esophagus…FUN!). 

On Wednesday they had a pizza party (that I helped with).  The teacher had a sister that just returned from Iraq.  The kids have all been writing letters and stories and sending pictures to her all year.  We live in a predominantly military neighborhood so many of the kids have parents who are deployed so the kids really get into writing these letters.  Before she came home her squadron took up a collection to give the kids a pizza party because they so enjoyed all the correspondence during the year.  She wrote them all letters during the year and sent small little gifts to them.  When she came back they all got their pictures taken with her and she brought them all hats and trinkets.

The Prince in his OIF (Operation Iraqi Freedom) hat


It was very sweet.  Some of those kids could seriously put away the pizza.  One very thin little boy had 6 pieces!! 

Thursday was their field day and class picnic.  Of course it rained all day.  I volunteered at that as well.  They played all kinds of games inside and then we had an indoor picnic (same little boy had 5 hotdogs!!).  It was fun!! 

Friday was the last day of school and early dismissal!!  My baby boy is now a THIRD grader!!!  When we got home he received his summer fun basket!!


Then when Hubby got home he received a last day of school gift (I think this was actually more for Hubby than for The Prince). 


We went and saw the new Indiana Jones movie on that Sunday.  It was a great movie.  The Prince loved it!! 

On Monday we had the family over for Memorial Day.  Lots of food (I refrained from taking pictures of it all because SHANNON thinks that is weird!!~Hi Shan!!  Love ya babe!).  We had pulled pork butt sammiches, chicken drummies, pasta salad, baked beans, corn on the cob with garlic parsley butter, chips and dips, a relish tray and the item that went the fastest…mini cornbread muffins!! 


I made brownies for dessert.  We had a good time.  MIL & FIL could not attend because MIL had started her radiation treatments and broke out in crazy scary hives all over (and I mean ALL OVER) her body.  She is doing great now and over halfway done with radiation.  The dermatologist said that her vitamin supplements had a reaction to the radiation or something like that.  There were missed.  I took two huge plates of food over to them while the boys played Guitar Hero.  She looked awful and actually said what I was seeing wasn’t even half as bad as it was.  Poor thing…it looked painful. 

I will end this entry now and do another entry for the week after Memorial Day.  It was wedding week!!  I hope alerts are fixed as I am sure noone wants to miss this action packed entry! :)



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Sunday, June 8, 2008
9:20:54 PM CDT
Feeling Thankful
Hearing None because for some reason my computer has no sound!!!

Bathroom Update Part II


After a little bit of drama the bathroom is done except for the shower doors and some minor touch up. 
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