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Little doggie grave.....
Okay...here's my question:
Remember my little dog who died couple of weeks ago? Well, I had a nice little grave for her and I put a little angel doggie on it (it was something really corny that I would NEVER do) and some nice little flowers. It looked very nice and I liked it.
Now, a friend of mine who I have known for a very long time came over Saturday and without asking or saying anything brought flowers and planted them on the little doggie grave.
Now, I know she loved the dog and I know she didn't mean any harm by doing that BUT I just found it very upsetting. I had it the way I liked and it was symmetrical and pretty.
I tried going and getting a few more flowers to get the symmetry back but it just doesn't look as nice. It really bothers me. I didn't say anything because I have learned to pick my battles and I know my friend loved the little dog but she was MY dog.
Am I overreacting????? Or am I just totally losing it here? (All over a couple of poorly placed but well intentioned flowers.)
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I think she was being very nice in doing this however....she was YOUR dog and how YOU choose to have her resting place is entirely up to you. I would remove the flowers and plant them elsewhere, if she says anything just tell her what you've just said here. She should understand and not make an issue about it.
Lisa -
I tought it was a very nice jesture on her part, that is up to you on how you think
5/13/08 8:15 AM
Smiles, Leigh
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