Words Do HURT - DAG IT

This morning I woke up feeling as fat as a cow. So I am minding my business and I had sent my pictures of myself to my cousin. She is my favorite cousin. She is also the cousin that has no hesitation with waking me up at 2 or 3 in the morning to discuss her marital problems. She sent back a message and her exacts words were.

"God you are fat." "When did you get so fat"

She didn't say anything else. I thought that words would not hurt me I really did. I have to tell you though I'm hurt. Not only am I hurt I am also angry. I am thinking okay she knows that I take 22 different medications a day including steroids. I don't eat like a pig or anything I just happen to be fat. My feelings are hurt. I want to hurt her. I want to send her back an email and tell her that she has no boobs and a butt way bigger than Jennifer Lopez. I want to tell her that's why she is always having marriage problems because she is controlling that's why her husband cheats on her. I want to say all of these bad things. I won't though. Why? Because I remember restraint of tongue and pen. I can tell you that I am not happy though. Although, I know I take medication and I am not a total pig I am still very unhappy right now. I just needed to say that.

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#7 Comment from fisherkristina
6/1/07 1:03 AM | Permalink

People who take meds that make them gain weight are not pigs. If that were true, I would be a pig. You and I are both not pigs. That is a horrible way to think of yourself. Now that was very not right of her to say. Maybe you should be direct with her and tell her that she was not respectful of you when she said those hurtful words. Perhaps it will teach her not to call others "pigs". At any rate, I think you will feel better getting your feelings out.

Krissy http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThink
#6 Comment from h0llyk911
5/31/07 10:26 PM | Permalink

I would definitely respond. But in a way that may make her feel like she made you feel. Maybe something like "Hey, so nice to hear from you at a time that is NOT 2 AM, hope you and the hubby are doing well and not fighting for once. As for me, well, you know what they say - you gain weight when you're happy and in love and - well - I'm lovin' every minute of it!"
:) From one chubby gal to another - I feel your pain!
#5 Comment from josephljtwrk
5/31/07 6:04 AM | Permalink

Tish, You're not a pig! You just have pigs sought after skin color, PINK! And Why? Cause you are new like a baby! Wish I could touch your feet!
#4 Comment from jckfrstross
5/29/07 8:38 PM | Permalink

ok first thing take her off your list (email) then don't answer her calls how rude of her to say that to you. grrrrr ignore her totally and you will feel better

Deb
#3 Comment from hugsdoodlewacky
5/29/07 5:47 PM | Permalink

((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))))I am sorry She said thoes mean words to you.I aggree with the other comment that SHe is probllay feeling sorry for Herself.I know its hurtful and you want to get back at them.Maybe email them and tell them you are very hurt buy what she said.Hope it all works out and I dont think your fat at all.Have a nice day.

http://journals.aol.com/hugsdoodlewacky/Mandy/

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