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Saturday, September 11, 2004
9:21:00 AM EDT
Hearing Peace on Earth -- U2

Remembrance & Celebration

Picture from Hometown

My way to remember is simple and it's something I've done every year since 9/11. I go outside, look out into the perfect, open sky (it's been a perfect, open sky every September 11 since then) and wait until I see a plane crossing the sky. I recall how no planes crossed my sky that day, and how exceptional and unusual that was. Then I give thanks that today of all days looks to be an ordinary day. And then I go back in and get on with my day, and celebrate everything I have: My wife and child, my work, and a life that is a blessing, a gift and a responsibility. I remember and then I live my life. I hope you can do the same.

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  • #20 Comment from ladydriversammie 
    9/11/04 11:35 PM Permalink
    Thanks for posting this John.  I went over to Whatever and read that entry, and it made me feel better.  I've been feeling cruddy all day for the way I handle disaster.  It makes me feel selfish too, but in my heart I know I'm not a bad person.  I'm sorry for what happened and I could go through all of the accounts and imagine the terror of those people and cry until there were no more tears, but it wouldn't change anything and I can't handle reliving their pain.  So I focus on the beauty of life and on the good things, like my family and how much I love them.  I think that's what the victims of 9/11 would want, really.  It's what I want when I die, no matter how it happens.  I don't want anyone crying for too long.  I'd rather that they remember something funny that I said or something that we did together and laugh.

    Sammie
    http://journals.aol.com/ladydriversammie/MovinOn
  • #19 Comment from slacbacmac 
    9/11/04 8:38 PM Permalink
    Agreement, Jay.  I paid special attention today to the
    ordinary planes & remembered a week when there were
    only fighter jets in our American sky.  IT was beautiful in
    a way, Horrific by means of another.  G forfend that any
    other children consider such a sorrowful sky,
    Quiet yet mournful...       Remember
  • #18 Comment from readmereadyou 
    9/11/04 6:25 PM Permalink
    So beautifully put. Thank you.
  • #17 Comment from hope5555 
    9/11/04 5:13 PM Permalink
    Well said.
  • #16 Comment from onestrangecat 
    9/11/04 4:57 PM Permalink
    I too remember the time when no planes crossed the sky.
    Read my Sept 11th entries here:
    http://journals.aol.com/onestrangecat/OneSummersDay/

    Kathy
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