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Monday, June 12, 2006
1:32:00 PM EDT
Hearing Some scherzo by Delius

The Saddest Story You'll Read Today


What happens when you die and your relatives don't claim your body? Coroners around the US are finding out:

Thomas Tellis died in March, but his cremated remains are still waiting to be claimed at a Canton funeral home. Shortly after the 89-year-old's death, investigators located Tellis' daughter, but the woman, who was born out of wedlock and raised by another man, refused to claim Tellis' body.

The case is part of what coroners and funeral directors see as a disturbing trend: bodies going unclaimed because relatives are either unwilling or unable to shoulder the responsibility or expense of burying the dead.


There's one story in this article about people who admitted they could afford to bury the deceased, thanks to insurance the deceased had, but that they took the money and used it to remodel the kitchen instead. Note to self: Be nice to family between now and death. I plan to be cremated anyway, so at least it'll be (relatively) cheap. No matter what, however, this is just a sad tale.


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  • #10 Comment from genmemorial 
    4/23/07 6:21 PM Permalink
    Part of the problem with cremation memorials or disposition of the cremated remains lies in the fact that there are few options for the family.  In many cases families simply do not know what to do with the ashes!  The statistics are staggering if you take the time to look at them.  Funeral homes and crematories used to have the cremains sent directly to them and then deliver them to the respective families.  Now they are sent directly to the familys. Why... because they were not being claimed, and the funeral homes/crematories were responsible for storing the ashes, etermally!

    When our family faced cremation of a loved one, the single most prominet problem that arose was that our Mother had chosen to be scattered.  We felt that we would be left with nothing.  No place. No memorial.  We created our first memorials for our mother.  We used less than a tsp of ashes in each memorial for our 7 siblings and scattered the remainder of the ashes.  Mom was aware of our choice before passing and found comfort in the fact that a small part of her would remain with each of her children.  

    If you or someone you know are trying to make a memorial choice for a loved one.  
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    memorialsnglass.com

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  • #9 Comment from libragem007 
    6/13/06 6:07 AM Permalink
    oh geez..I'm gonna start being nice then...talking of family who can't afford to bury their own family, I know of a woman who had to give prematurely birth to their child because of birth defects, some sort of abortion, but the baby was still breathing and they left the baby in the hosp because they couldn't afford to bury the baby. Sad sad sad tales.
    Gem
  • #8 Comment from monponsett 
    6/13/06 3:40 AM Permalink
    The Smurf is pretty much all about dying first.
  • #7 Comment from onestrangecat 
    6/12/06 6:27 PM Permalink
    my parents have already pre-planned and pre-paid everything.  everything.  I just need to show up, and maybe cough up the money for some flowers.

    Kathy
  • #6 Comment from elleme2 
    6/12/06 2:32 PM Permalink
    This says more about the real state of "family values" than all the gay marriage bans in the world.
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