Lance's Laws of Life

10:55:50 PM EDT
Feeling Quiet
Hearing silence

I guess I'll finally take some time to start back writing in my journal and a whole lot has happened since last time I wrote in here.  I am now the General Manager in Fitzgerald for a little over 3 months and I've turned the numbers around big time.  I've bought my own house and I'm loving it.  I still got a lot of work but I'm gonna try to get it done really soon.  Maybe I'll get some pictures in here.  Me and my girlfriend or ex girlfriend now have broken up like a million times and gotten back together a million times.  It's kinda crazy but I love that girl so much but no matter how much I loved her and she loved me it could just never work out.  It was really just another sad case or another relationship.  My lil girl started school today and she's in the first grade and lovin it.  I feel like everything is happening so quick in life right now.  Don't know if I'll ever find that special person for me to spend my life with but I do want a family someday ....I hope that special kind of love really exists....I won't give up........until next time.......God Bless!!!

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8:41:22 PM EST
Feeling Happy
Hearing Sherry making dog noises...yeah...she's crazy!!!        Well it's another valentines day and I'm getting ready to go to Amy's house.  She's been working all day and I'm really looking forward to seeing her.  I guess I'm not used to having anyone on valentine's day.  I guess it's been around 6 years since I've had anybody today.  Somehow I manage to be alone around that time.  I've got some good news since my last entry.......I am officially getting promoted to General Manager of the Fitzgerald Captain D's in a few weeks.  Everyone is really impressed with the numbers I've been running since our General Manager has been out on medical leave for about 3 months so they are ready to give me my own store(they're mistake).....just kiddin.  I'm looking forward to it and I think I'll do great.  I'm still hoping the railroad will call soon but I guess I'll just try to be patient, which is really hard to do sometimes.   Well I hope everyone has a great valentine's day!!!!  May everyone feel more LOVE than ever!!!

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1:07:26 PM EST
Feeling Happy
Hearing Sherry and Mom Talkin             My last entry reminded me of a girl from Douglas I use to see everyday and the funny thing about this girl was every time you'd see her, she'd always have the biggest smile on her face.  No matter what the situation was she'd have the biggest smile on her face.  I always wondered what was wrong with her......could it be something wrong with her face muscles(making her smile all the time).......could she be a little messed up in the head(I thought that and feel guilty about it!!).  She rode her bike 3 miles to work everyday with a smile on her face.  One time it was flooding but she was still smiling.  This girl could always catch my attention cause I wanted to see the day she wasn't smiling.  One day I went to Burger King to eat and this girl said something that sends tingles thru me to this day.  I stood in line and there she was smiling just as big as ever.  "Hi!!!!  IT'S GREAT TO HAVE YOU AT BURGER KING.....and so on"  she spoke to me.  It almost scared me she was soooo overly joyful!  I made my order and went to make my drink when I heard the person behind me ask her "Why are you so happy all the time?"  Her answer was, "Cause Jesus Loves Me!"  My mouth fell open and I'll always envy her because she has the secret to eternal happiness all figured out!!

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8:59:34 PM EST
Feeling Happy
Hearing silence

  I guess since my web page is called Lance's Laws of Life maybe I should let everyone no what the Laws of Life are according to me so here it goes..........maybe by the time I'm done writing this I'll actually have an idea what they are myself!!!!!

1. Be proud of everything you are and everything you've been blessed with cause to be happy in life you've got to be happy with yourself and accept and love everything you are.

2. Keep close and appreciate the things that love you unconditionally(Jesus,your family, your children, your pets, and your lifelong friends.)  Because they will always be there for you in good times and bad......and we all need love in our life.

3. Always find time to smile and laugh even if your laughing at yourself.  Sometimes I probably amuse myself a little too much.  There's probably nothing that can make me feel better than a lil laughter whether it's me making someone else laugh or someone making me laugh.

4. Treat people how you would like to be treated.  If you live by this rule you get so much back out of it.  You gain respect from people and people treat you so much better.  But you also gain self respect, it hurts my heart to treat anyone badly but I still do it sometimes even though it makes me feel so bad.

5. Find your gift, and use it.......I believe everyone has something that makes them unique find out what that is and use that gift.

6. Have faith that no matter what.......God has a special plan for you and he'll always take care of ya and he'll never turn his back on you no matter what.  In life, I've always seen a few people who just shined to me.  They always seemed so happy and they were always the best people.  They sincerely cared about everyone around them almost more than themselves.  It seemed as if these people just floated around on a cloud everyday just gliding thru life and loving it.  I've only met a handful of these people but they always seemed to be the happiest people I've ever known.  I asked each one of these people what was it that made them the great people they were, and I'm telling you ......Each and everyone of them said they had placed their lives and their faith in Jesus. 

Maybe these laws of life will help somebody but these things are what matter the most to me!!!!!!

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6:30:47 PM EST
Feeling Happy
Hearing little girl just a talkin

     

I recently rented the movie Air Bud for my little girl.  I was in the other room and I asked her a question and she answered like she was in there sobbing.  I walked in there and she was just balling crying watching that movie.  It was so pitiful.  I reached over and gave her a big hug and told her "you got your daddy's heart".  It was sooo cute.  Everybody got to see it tonight when we watched "My Dog Skip."  The crazy thing about this movie is I was right across from her crying my eyes out.  It was funny when mom walked in and saw us both crying and then mom sat down and started crying......I guess you can see where we got it from!!!

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4:09:57 PM EST
Feeling Hopeful
Hearing silence Another year gone by.....and they are going by so fast!!!  I guess it was another good year.  It was another great year!!!  I have no doubts this is gonna be the best year yet for the Veal's though.  I've been with a great girl named Amy from Douglas for about 7 months now and she's the sweetest girl in the world.  We're going stronger than ever.  She loves me more than any girl besides Autumn has ever loved me.  I believe the railroad is about to call me to conductor school sometime this month and I can make me some big money.  My lil girl is blossoming into more than I could have ever imagined and everyday she brings something new to it.  I just thank God for everything he's given me and for keeping us all safe and I pray for another safe 2006 more than anything.  Happy New Year!!!

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4:02:17 PM EST
Feeling Happy
Hearing something on the movie Air Bud autumn is watching

     It was another great Christmas this year and it always has been.  My main goal of the year this year was for my little girl to feel like I felt when I was little.  I always remember being so happy on Christmas and leading up to it.  I probably put a little more effort into it than I needed to because my favorite gift every Christmas was my entire family being together in the house all at the same time.  I remember every one of them walkin in the door was like opening the best Christmas present ever.  I think Autumn feels the same way.  She was a happy little girl and I think she was so appreciative this year of everything she got.  She's got a heart of gold and that's what I treasure the most in people.  I always have my little talks with her when we're alone and she gets so deep into what I'm saying.  It's amazing how much of a difference I can have in her development just because she looks up to me so much.  The Power Of A Dad!!!  I remember telling her that no matter what to always be nice to everybody even the people who are mean to you...to love the people who are mean to you the most.  I told her this about a year ago.  The other day she told me a girl was mean to her at school and then she told me she loved her anyway.  And it was this bully girl at school with no friends.  Every song we hear on the radio I explain in detail what every little sentence in the song means and she gets so into it.  I've done this forever.  Then yesterday she pulled out her little guitar and sang the prettiest heartfelt lil song ever.  I thought "I've just made a future American Idol!!"  It's fun watchin this lil girl grow and develop.  All she wants to do is impress us and never let us down and I remember always feeling the same way when I was little.  I just hope she's as happy as I've always been.  Thanks to my family for always makin me the happiest lil boy ever.         P.S.  I'm still happy all grown up too!!!!!!! 

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6:20:51 PM EST
Feeling Chillin'
Hearing nothin This wasn't a Halloween picture but it might as well have been.  She looks like a lil housewife don't she.  This was the  first Halloween I've ever got to spend with my lil girl and I think we both had a good time.  I felt like a little kid again gettin all dressed up and stuff.  It was fun to see her excited because I was gonna be with her.  I dressed up like a 3 foot midget riding a big ostrich.  It was really funny and I don't think she'll ever forget it.  She's growin up too fast.  I've always loved Halloween and everything that goes with it.  I think I just love to scare and be scared a lil too much.  After everybody was asleep I got on the computer and read some stuff that scared me so bad on the computer that I couldnt' hardly sleep forever.  I was scared to death.  It's my birthday today and that's probably another reason I love Halloween cause it is one day before my birthday.  The years are coming so fast now and now I'm 26 years old.  26......I'm confident this will be the best year of my life.   Hopefully I'll write again soon.

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7:02:59 PM EDT
Feeling Happy
Hearing some woman singin on the t.v It's not a safe world anymore when you got to worry about regular household kittens terrorizing your country.  One of my favorite things to do my whole life was prank my family or anybody who I could get a good scare out of.  For example, the time when I was like 8 and I rigged this contraption that would cause a spider to drop from the ceiling as my sister walked in her bedroom.  I used that one to scare everybody.  I remember rigging the sink to where when someone would turn it on it would spray them.  I got my brother in the middle of the night with that one...i heard him hollering in the kitchen so I got up and put a cup of water on top of his door to his room leaning in so when he pushed it open it would fall on his head.  It was always cool bein the younger brother and makin them laugh all the time.  I got the scare of my life today in an email.....supposedly you would see a white mist (that looked like a ghost) alongside a car if you looked real close....and I was all into it when this ugly thing jumped up and let out this screech and I screamed like a little girl and grabbed my heart.  Mom and Sherry ran in there to my rescue to see me pale white almost in tears.  That was  a cruel cruel email.  I guess I deserved it!!!!

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10:48:04 PM EDT
Feeling Happy
Hearing autumn watching cinderella She's so tough and so cute.....I have yet to hear her complain once about the cast on her arm.  We both playfight all the time and she has turned the cast into a weapon against me.  That thing hurts too.  This little girl is growin up too fast.  We did her homework and I was thinking she shouldn't be able to do this at this age.  She had to read something twice thru and I had to sign that she did it.  I thought maybe they meant the parent was supposed to read so I started reading it to her....she stopped me and told me that she would read it.  She took it from me and read the whole thing.  I don't remember being able to do that in kindergarden.

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