9:01:00 PM EST
It's been a very eventful week....I'll start with last Saturday..We did go to my step-daughters house..It was alot of fun. The kids had a blast. Although, we did miss Santa. My grandson knew that it was Uncle Rico.
We left there and went to dinner...Oh, it was good. I had the Tequila cream chicken, my husband had the Cuban pork. He really enjoyed it. We were not thrilled with the rice. Now, we both like rice. but this stuff didn't even taste like rice and it was green..Oh well, the rest of the meal was great. We were home and sleeping by 9:30...lol..
On Monday, I went to see his attorney to see if we could come to some sort of settlement agreement. Well, that did not turn out. His attorney is an ass..and I more or less let him know that. I told him that Carlos made a comment about me not being able to go to our house up north. I let him know that he needed to talk to him and let him know that until we had a settlement agreement, I can go there anytime I want to..He had the nerve to ask me why I needed to go there. I told him that I wasn't sure if I would, but that I could if I wanted to. He wanted to know what I needed to get out of the house, I told him that I wasn't sure, but I had every right to do so..well, it went downhill from there. I told him that he was the enemy and that I didn't have anymore to say..He should just get a court date and we would let the judge decide..he said that that would be more time and more money....My reply?? OH WELL.
I don't think he liked me too much...l0l..
I called two attorneys today..one wants two thousand dollars for the retainer...ugh..I had a consultation with him a month or so ago..I explained the situation. I told him that I just got a new job and I get paid this Friday, I would forgo getting anything more for Christmas and give him my whole check. He finally agreed to see me on Friday.
Then I got a return call from the attorney that had done my sons adoption. He will see me tomorrow at four..My ex is on a friendly basis with him. And in fact, ran into him tonight. My ex told him that I really needed help and with Christmas here, it was really hard for me..He also told him that he would back me up on the money..that he would even be willing to help me pay it off. Nice...So, we will see what he has to say tomorrow about where I stand..
Carlos has had a very negative attitude towards Jeremy these last few months..Finds fault in just about every thing that he does...and he knows that this is the one area that he should not go with me..I am a mother before I am any thing else..and he will find that out soon..
I am having Jeremy go and stay with his dad for a month or two until I can get things settled here. I will not have my son be the scapegoat for anyone..
So, although I have tried to keep things calm around here so that we could get through the Holidays..I'm not sure what is going to happen now. I don't know if he is going to stop his daughters from coming over with the kids for Christmas day as planned or not..Hopefully not. If he does, I will just go to their houses....
I will not let him ruin the Holidays for me..
Well, I guess I better get some work done before I hit the hay.
I hope tomorrow brings smiles and sunshine to everyone.....
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Beautiful graphic Sheri... and yes, Jesus is the reason for the season. Hugs, Janie
12/20/07 5:41 PM
Lucille