AS MY HEAD SPINS formerly known as Mumma4evr's life or lack thereof

hey, maybe I should change the name of my journal!  As the Head spins......LOL

Last  night SHE came home to tell me that she has broken up with IDIOT....and...are you ready for this?????

SHE has a new boyfriend.....yes, that is my head you heard hitting the edge of the desk...ignore the goose egg on my forehead!!!!

Yes, a new one....according to her,,,he is nice, he treats her well, he sticks up for her and she thinks this is the one.......all t he things she said about IDIOT when he became her boyfriend....The scariest part of this guy..I think he has access to a car...

IDIOT called here a few times last night...when he called and I amswered he hung up, if hte answering machine picked up, he hung up...if SHE answered Idiot would threaten her and the new boyfriend. 

I sat her down last night and told her that  she really needs to be able to care for herself and be able to live on her own by herself with no help from us and boys before she will be ready to settle down and get married.  I told her that she will be haivng the reputation of a slut if she continues to go through guys the way she does....Of course this feel on closed ears.  SHE informed me that I am old and I have no idea what I am talking about....

Just so you think she is taking up all my time....LOL

the TEEN came home last night to tell me her grades for her mid-term exams....the easy Earth Science was a 23....now if you are wondering if that is out of a possible 25 points, you would be wrong,,out of a possible 100 points. I have no clue now as to weat to do with her....we have taken away TV, copmuter, MP3 player....everything and it made more work on me, as I had to be on her back all the time...and then I would find her sneaking onto the computer or watching TV....So, she is on her own now... I am tired of  nagging her to study and do her homework....if she wants to watch TV and be one ht ecomputer, she can be...but if she thinks I am going to drive her anywhere...LOL...she can get on a bike and ride or walk!!!! ifshe flunks the year ,we are thinking we might not allow her to do summer school, we might have her repeat the year!!   She did summer school last year to help her  get ready for retaking the REgents she failed....she failed the regents the second time and if they had been grading her ( she audited the class that she barelypassed duringhte school year) she flunked the summer school class.... I don't know what to do now

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• #8 Comment from randlprysock 
  1/30/08 9:02 AM | Permalink

  Ohmy goodness when it rains it pours, eh?  Many hugs and prayers!!!  You are a good mom!!  Just keep telling them and something will stick eventually!!  That's what I keep doing and a lot of praying.  Now my teen is telling me he doesn't believe in God!!  Can you believe it?  I've spent a life teaching him and he thinks he knows how it all works.  Sigh.  Head shaking and banging and eyes rolling into the back of my head,
  Lisa
• #7 Comment from mamaof4qts 
  1/29/08 8:55 PM | Permalink

  I think you need a very big ice pack.  I DO NOT ENVY YOU!!!!!
  Jami
• #6 Comment from plieck30 
  1/29/08 5:22 PM | Permalink

  That sounds like a good name for your journal. I sure wouldn't know what to do with those kids but that is why you younger ones have them. Paula
• #5 Comment from chat2missie 
  1/29/08 5:09 PM | Permalink

  You're household sounds as stressed as mine!  Good Luck!
  Missie
• #4 Comment from xxroxymamaxx 
  1/29/08 2:56 PM | Permalink

  Hi Beck.  You will do the right thing.  I know you will.  With both She and HER. : )  Love ya!!