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Wednesday, June 6, 2007
12:02:00 AM EDT
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~ A Rant, A Snag, and A Tag ~
I'll start by saying here I sat last night watching the hockey game. I heard a grunt/whistle type noise at my front window. I got up and looked and it was my nephew. He asked what time his mother worked 'til. I really had no idea but it was about 9:15 and she is usually home before 10. I asked him if he was coming in and he replied, 'No, I'm walking down to my friends.' I had no idea he even had a friend that lived nearby but was surprised he was going to walk. 'Exercise, you know' Is what he said. So I left it at that and went back to my chair and watched the game. It was a good while later that I sneezed and I heard him say 'bless you'. I laughed and said, 'thought you were going to your friends, why not come in?' I didn't get a reply this time nor did the door open. So I got up and looked and he was gone, truck and all. I shrugged it off and when his Mom got home I told her. Neither of us understood what was going on, but we let it go.
Fast forward to today. I was sitting here playing with the Caron Vinson graphic, trying to get the effect the way I wanted. It is snaggable, as is, by the way. I was planning a nice calm entry for this evening. Boy how quickly things change! I heard the front door open and then the living room door. It was my nephew. Same 'ole greeting, 'hey what's up?' Well, the response I got was not at all what I expected. He basically went off on me for not letting him in last night. HUH? I said, 'you never said the door was locked.' He replied with several obscenities. Saying basically I let him sit outside for all that time and wouldn't get up to let him in. I tried to stay calm, 'look your Mom has been here almost 3 years, I've never not let you in, nor have I ever just ignored you when the door was locked, if you did say it was locked I didn't hear you, why didn't you say it again. You had no problem carrying on a conversation with me through the window.' More obscenities and several choice names. I told him to get out. He told me 'NO!' This is the same nephew who a while back showed so little respect towards me and my things. Some things never change, but I had it. I told him again to get out that he is not welcome in my home if he can't respect me. He refused again ranting about it being his Mother's house and her paying. Well that kind of explains that. She does live here and has for almost 3 years. I've been here for a good 15. She pays the cable bill and helps with groceries and household chores. She does do most of the cooking. But pay? No, not even half. That is not my complaint. She is my sister and needed help, and I had the room. What gets my goat is how he thinks because she lives here he has the run of the place. WRONG!! If she lived with anyone else he would not be able to come and go as he pleases, he wouldn't sit in the house for hours while she wasn't home.. if she paid or not. So he feels because she lives here (and he thinks she pays) that he can just come in and walk all over me. I was livid. She did come out of her room and told him to leave. He stormed off calling me every name in the book. I was in tears and shaking. I just looked at her and 'said I'm sorry, but he has no respect for anyone most of all himself.' There was more to our conversation, and I won't bore you with it. I just don't get why a young adult who has it made is so miserable and treats so many like he does. I am not the only one. 'It's just him' is not good enough. The rest of the evening was pretty quiet. About 30 minutes after the phone rings, and I will give you one guess as to who it was for. WTH!?!?! He has a cell phone, why is he giving this number out to friends to get a hold of him? So I can take messages for him? So his mother can? NOT!!!
So to calm down I did another graphic. Just shut all the other nonsense out. I was called every kind of bitch you could imagine today, under cover was not one however. Wasn't going to do a tag request so close to my last one, but what the hell. LOL So if you're an under cover bitch and want your name on it let me know.
:::sigh::: I think I'm a bit calmer now. Sorry for the rant, just had to get it out. I hope everyone is having a great day and I wish you all a great hump day.
Hugs
~d
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Can I have the undercover bitch tag please with Jenny on it?? Thank you very much x
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I don't know about being under cover, but I have been told on occassion that I am a bitch, lol. So may I have one please? I think maybe it would be a good idea if your sister told her son not to come around anymore. If he wants to see her then can meet somewhere. That is your home, you make the rules. And you can rant anytime you want. We're always here for you. (((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Cindy -
Your right, he doesn't even like himself and this is his way of venting. Bad choice. He'll be left with nothing at an early age. I feel so sorry for you. He is that one person who just makes you miserable. He's toxic. Is it time for your sister to move yet? Then she can deal with him. Maybe they should move in together. He needs guidance. Just a thought. :)
http://journals.aol.com/mrsm711/LatteDah/ Tracy -
You know I think teenagers go through a real selfish phase. At least some of them not all of them. I realized that when they go through that phase they are almost crazy and I believe in my heart that the things they feel they make them real. Whether they are really real or imagined. I am glad that you stood up for yourself though. That is the important thing. Especially since I personally don't feel that we should be anyone's doormats today. http://journals.aol.com/iamti
sh0726/all-things-are-possible / Tish G.
6/8/07 8:13 PM
Thanks!