Thoughts on Beauty, Love, and Life!!!

What makes for a "Highly" Attractive Lady!!!

Wed, 04 May 2005 21:45:43 GMT

The Science of Sex Appeal;
*What Makes A Woman Beautiful, Attractive!!!*

PRETTY FACE + PERT VOLUPTUOUS BREAST + SMALL WAISTLINE + SHAPELY DERRIERE (HIPS) = ATTRACTIVE LADY!!!

Question: What makes a woman Beautiful, Attractive? Is there a simple, easy answer to this question? We all have our own opinion, what we like don’t like, as far as a female is concerned, but on the whole and as an average what make for an Attractive female, exactly. We shall delve into this question and try to answer it, as best as it can be. We shall search for the universal truths - in and of Beauty, Attraction, and Sex Appeal - as far as females are concerned, those things that make a woman universally attractive.

Now, when evaluating the Beauty, Attractiveness, and Overall Sex Appeal of a female, are we only to consider her physical attributes, or is there more that we need to take a look at. The basic question here is whether our affinity, to a female, that we find to be attractive, is impacted by more than just her physical attributes. Physiologically we respond well to physical stimulus, such as a pleasing face and/or physique on a female. That is naturally inherent, innate, of man; it is ingrained, into us, but is the level of our response affected by other factors. I’d say, yes. There’s a reason why, between two women of equal physical beauty, when asked which one we prefer, we usually pick one above the other.The fact is we all have traits that we like and dislike in others, characteristics and attributes that we appreciate and don’t appreciate in others, that we want those around us to have or not have, separate and apart form their mere physical traits and features.

Considering that there are multiple factors that go into what make a woman attractive, we shall first and foremost consider that of which we are impacted by first, which is what we see first, that being the physical. So physically speaking what makes a woman attractive. It can be stated with one word symmetry. For us to judge a woman as beautiful, we must like what we see, and although there are certain physical specifics that we might like, prefer, as individuals, in the end, it’s how those physical specifics come together that most greatly impact our views, on the physical beauty and appeal of a woman. It is the overall symmetry of her features that makes a woman attractive. We shall examine these features, starting, first, by looking at the face. Apart from the individual facial features, we like a face that is symmetrically well balanced, easy on the eyes, as they say, possessing a stately grace, with a youthful, resplendent, glow and an angelic radiance, a face that lights up the room you might say. We show a strong preference for individuals who’s right and left sides are well matched, for faces that are aesthetically well laid, that have an aesthetically pleasing appearance. Now, what are the individual, specific, features that make up such a face, as far as a female is concerned? On the whole, we like a small jaw, defined cheekbones, a small, delicate nose, with soft, full, luscious, lush lips, with a voluptuous, sensuous appeal, large, lustrous eyes, proportional to size of face, with symmetrical, - not too small nor large - straight, white teeth and an overall symmetry of facial features. Her ears should be small and round and in proportion to head. We want a woman with no facial hair and prefer clear, unblemished skin. The skins complexion should be milky, silken,and smooth in its appearance.

There are many physical traits and features we show a preference to. We spoke of the facial ones, now we shall look at some of the others. Some of the other features we are fond of are a long graceful neck, small hands (dainty, feminine, and soft), with slim, elongated fingers, small beautifully arched and gracefully contoured feet, with cute, trim, symmetrical, and aesthetically appealing toes. We have a preference towards long, flowing, lustrous hair, but are inappreciative towards any type of body hair on a female. (We want no visible hairiness, on the legs, armpits, forearms, and as I mentioned before, especially on the face.) Of the overall skin we prefer it to be supple and soft, in texture and in feel, with no scars, imperfections, or visible marks of age, and just as with the facial sink, we want it to be milky, silken, and smooth, in texture and tone.

We’ve spoken about many of the physical features that we like that make for an attractive female but now we shall delve into the actual physical physique. Now, many of the unaware, when speaking about a female’s physique would focus on body weight and size, and although we generally prefer a slim built, we by and large don’t like an underweight female. Fact is, we like a female with proportionally attractive dimensions, and body proportion is one of the key things we shall focus on. We shall focus on and go with the theory that a slim waistline between shapely hips and prominent breasts makes a woman highly appealing, regardless of the woman's overall body size and weight. We shall focus on the proportional slimness of the waist, when compared against the hips and the chest; on the subtracted difference that of the waist measurement from the hip measurement and the waist measurement from chest measurement. The measurement of the waist must be at least 8 inches smaller than that of the chest and 10 inches smaller than that of the hips, for a most highly physically attractive visually specimen. As far as the actual sizes of each, the chest/bust measurement shouldn’t be smaller than 32 inches and optimally not smaller than 34 inches and the hip measurement shouldn’t be smaller than 32 inches, as well, with the same optimum of not smaller 34 inches and the measurement of the hips can’t exceed 42 inches and as far as the waist measurement is concerned, it shall not exceed 30 inches and must be in line with the proportional scale. So if you have an appealing, pretty face and a well proportioned body, within the bust to waist to hip measurement ratio, than you are, indeed, a highly physically attractive lady. See, with the female body and physical attractiveness, it’s not a matter of size but more a matter of the Female’s proportions, of how her body is physically laid out. The key is not in her weight, per say, but more in the distribution there of, as for as it concerns a visually and aesthetically pleasing body. Note, as far as the bust to waist to hip ratio measurements are concerned, the difference between bust and waist can be as low as 6 inches and the difference between the hip and waist as low as 8 inches and a female’s body could still be considered as very attractive, although, maybe not “Highly” attractive, but her body layout is, still, appealing to the eye.

When looking at a woman’s physique in considering whether she is appealing and attractive, it is not the size of her body that is key but more so over her body type. If she has a slim/trim body type (petite or athletic as they say), she has what is considered to be a nice body/physique, and even if she has a bit more weighty body but it is voluptuous, curvaceous, in its fame (thick as they say) she is still consider to be physically attractive body wise. A physically well-proportioned body is a good body, but body proportion isn’t the only factor out there to be considered, in determining what makes for a nice physique. There are also two very prominent factors that we shall also take a look at, they being Waist to Hip Ratio (WHR) and Body Mass Index (BMI). These are formulas used to calculate and figure out ones body types. By using these formulas you can figure out your body classification, if your weight and body type falls under Average/normal, Underweight, or Overweight. Body Mass Index (BMI) is based on a person’s weight and height, while Waist to Hip Ratio (WHR) is based on just that the ratio between the waist and the hip. Now, if you were to factor BMI and WHR in the consideration of a female’s attractiveness, to be considered a highly attractive female, she’ would have to have a (BMI) Body Mass Index not higher than 23 or of 23 or lower or a (WHR) Waist to Hip Ratio of 0.75 or less or not exceeding than 0.75. (Note: 0.8 or lower is considered to be a healthy, acceptable, and in fact a good WHR for women; a BMI between 18.5 and 24.9 is considered to be in the normal and accepted range for a female. A BMI of 18.5 or less for a female is considered to be underweight and a BMI of 26 or more is overweight or into and unhealthy range.) As Waist to Hip Ratio is concerned, healthy, fertile women typically have waist-hip ratios of 0.6 to 0.8, meaning their waists are 60 to 80 percent the size of their hips, whatever their actual weight. To take one familiar example, a 36-24-36 figure would have a WHR of .67. You would get that WHR by dividing the waist measurement by the hip measurement. Another example, if your waist measured 26 inches and your hips measured 36 you would have a WHR of .72.This ratio is low and indicative of attractiveness. However, if your waist measured 38 and your hips measured 42 your WHR would be approximately .90, a higher and less-attractive ratio.

How to find your (BMI) Body Mass Index:

Body Mass Index can be calculated using pounds and inches with this equation

BMI = {Weight in Pounds ÷ (Height ininches) x (Height in inches) x 703}

Divide your total body weight by the square of your height in inches than multiply that by 703 and you have your BMI.

For example, a Female who weighs 127 pounds and is 5 feet 4 inches tall has a BMI of 21.79.

[127 lbs. divided by (64 inches) x (64 inches) x 703 = 21.79]

How to find your (WHR) waist-to-hip ratio:

1. Use a tape measure to find the circumference of your waist at its narrowest point when your stomach is relaxed.
Waist: inches
2. Measure the circumference of your hips at their widest (where your buttocks protrude the most).
Hips: inches
3. Divide your waist measurement by your hip measurement.
Waist/hip = Waist-to-hip ratio.

There's no doubt that a slim waistline between shapely hips and prominent breasts makes a woman highly appealing, this is regardless of the woman's overall body size and weight. In fact, men 'biologically' prefer curvy women with a pronounced hourglass figure. A Weekend Post/Compas Inc. poll echoes this male preference. More men ranked "well-proportioned curves" and "curvaceous and voluptuous" far higher than the choice of a "thin and straight body like a magazine model." It is perhaps unsurprising to find that the voluptuous Marilyn Monroe had a 37-24-37 figure in 1954 – with a near perfect WHR of.65! Interestingly, women in the U.S, when asked to rate female figures toward the "ideal," consistently choose thinner figures than their male counterparts. It would seem that the current trend for girls to diet until they become seriously underweight is more due to peer pressure from other women than from men.

To close our discussion on a female’s body layout, I feel it must be pointed out that we neither find an overweight nor underweight female attractive - on the average, but more so over a female who is in the mid-point of the two.

Now, that we discussed the general dimensions, of what is an attractive female body, we shall now get into the specific features there of. We shall start by looking at the Breast and Buttocks and what we like, find attractive therein. Generally, we like full, well rounded, but yet, shapely breasts and buttocks. A woman’s Breast we like to be pert, as well as shapely and round, voluptuous (in their appearance), supple, and soft. A woman’s Buttocks we like firm and high, in addition to shapely, full, and well rounded. We like Butts that are nicely curved and contoured, rounded, as I mentioned, possessing a curvature at both the top and the bottom, and just like the Breast, we like them with a voluptuous, ample appeal. A woman’s Stomach (waistline) we like smooth and supple, but yet, defined and firm. Her legs should be, in proportion to her body and height, long and shapely, sculpted, toned, defined, and firm, but yet, still, very feminine. We want a woman’s legs to have distinct feminine curves and not be massive and manly, in their overall muscularity. Length, shapeliness, and definition are a plus, for legs on a female, while protruding, bulging muscles are a no, no, As for as the perfect height for a female of a high attractiveness level, she should above 5ft. and under 6ft. in height -- allowing a couple of inch leeway each way. We want her tall enough to have a statuesque body but not so tall that she intimidates, or for her to have a short and more petite type frame, but not so short and/or petite (small) that it’s creepy/weird (wherein she looks like a little girl).

Lastly, we shall touch on those non-physical features that contribute to a woman’s overall appeal. Generally, we like a woman who’s demure and genteel, in her basic nature, but we also admire and are attractive to a woman of quite strength and confidence. We even find ourselves with an affinity to those who are more gregariously confident i.e. the Diva type. We like a woman who can carry herself well, who is ladylike and feminine. We appreciate elegance, class, and style in a woman. We are drawn to women with a certain effervescence, vibrancy, and radiance. We are attracted to a woman with sophistication, intellect, and charm, worldly but with a certain childlike innocence about her. We also admire women who are coquettish and guileful, but not in a malicious manor. We want her full of feminine wile, but not to be full of it. We like a woman who is graceful, personable, and good-natured.

For a woman to be attractive and have overall sex appeal, she must have an overall physical symmetry. Her face must be aesthetically pleasing and her body well proportioned. Her facial features must symmetrical and evenly spaced - preferably without blemish or hair. Her waistline must be trim, in proportion to shapely pert, full, round breast and round, full, high, firm buttocks. Her legs should be shapely, defined, toned, and firm and of a length proportional to her body. She must exude femininity and radiate with qualities that speak to her worldliness and indomitable essence, her intellect and depth as a person. She must have a pretty face and well-proportioned body, and be in possession of interesting and worthwhile qualities, apart from and in addition to the physical trait.

Physical beauty in a woman may not be everything, but for good or bad it's certainly very important. Would Prince Charming have really chosen Cinderella out of all the maidens at the ball if she were not the most beautiful in the land? The honest answer is "No".

Psychological studies show that men rank female beauty the highest among a long list of attributes that they seek in women. The phrase "I love you for your beauty" is hardly likely to be heard from the lips of a man in these politically correct days, but it is nevertheless often true, at least in the earliest stages of a relationship. A wonderful mind is great, but sometimes - like Cinderella - you also need the "beauty" to create the initial interest, overture.

Synopsis:

This is a research thesis I did - on what makes for an attractive female - looking at the different variables that went into perceived physical attractiveness in women and at what in general we found to be attractive - touching also on some of the crucial non-physical factors, (traits) that we find attractive in females. It is a look at the overall makeup of an attractive woman and what factors into that.

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REFERENCES
DeRidder, C.M., Bruning, P.F., Zonderland, M.L., Thijssen, J.H.H., Bonfer, J.M.G., Blankenstein, M.A., Huisveld, I.A., &Erich, W.B.M. (1990). Body mass fat, body fat distribution and plasma hormones in early puberty in females. Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism, 70, 888 – 893. Eibl-Eibesfeldt, (1989). Human ethology. Gardner, D.M., Garfinkel, P.E., Schwartz,D., & Thompson, M. (1980). Cultural expectation of thinness in women. Psychological Reports, 47, 83 –191. Female Physical Beauty Parts 1 & 2: anniesrichards.tripod.com/beauty.htm

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How To Romance A Woman!!!

Sat, 03 Mar 2007 00:10:50 GMT

(Ladies, I found this article on the internet about romancing a woman. Tell me if you are or disagree,if you think its accurate. I personally love to romance a woman and I like to now in this article what you agree and disagree with. And I'd also like to know what it take to romance you. )

How To Romance A Woman:

Specific tips on how to give a romantic compliment, and keep the romance alive in your relationship with your wife, girlfriend or partner.

Ask any adult and they’ll tell you that men and women are different in many ways (beyond the obvious physical differences!). Emotionally, men and women often have different needs. Our challenges in understanding the needs of the opposite sex have made books like “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” bestsellers. Let’s take a look, then, at a few things tips on how to successfully romance a woman --- from a woman’s perspective.

*Compliments*
Compliments are a little like frosting – too slick, and they slide right off. Too thick, and they’re sickening. But a cake without frosting is a little sad; and a woman without compliments may feel the same way. A good compliment can make a woman feel truly appreciated and loved. What then differentiates a “good” compliment from a bad one? Here are a few factors:

• Sincerity – women like to know that they can trust a man. We like to hear compliments that are clear and specific, that come from the heart. Most women would rather receive one sincere compliment rather than ten insincere ones. A single insincere compliment can also serve to discredit you, and devalue your future compliments.

• Specificity – A vague compliment is like that frosting above, but you forgot to add enough sugar. It’s okay, but it is just kind of “neutral”. Add a specific detail or two, though, and the compliment takes on new value. Compare the impact of “That’s a pretty dress” with the more specific “I love your dress. It really brings out the blue in your eyes, and really shows off your sexy body.” Which one do you think is apt to make your partner feel more appreciated?

• Frequently – while some men toss out compliments like they’re business cards at a Rotary convention, others are so frugal with compliments that the woman ends up feeling unappreciated. If you fall into the first category, check out the two recommendations above. If you’re in the latter category, you might want to try praising your partner a little more often. Compliments that come freely and more frequently make us feel appreciated and loved.

• Unexpectedly – If you find your partner “fishing” for compliments, it may be that you could improve on your complimenting skills. One tip is to offer compliments and praise when she isn’t expecting them – as a sign of your love and appreciation for her and all she does for you. Some women say that the only time they get compliments is when they ask for them, or when their husbands want sex. So they are suspicious of all unsolicited compliments. How sad is that? Let your partner know how much you love and appreciate her, and she’ll appreciate your attentiveness.

• Intelligently – one of the greatest compliments you can give a woman is to appreciate her mind/soul/intellect. It’s far easier to hand out compliments about physical attributes – her appearance, her outfit, her haircut, etc. than it is to compliment her intelligence. Next time you have the chance to tell your partner how much you appreciate her for something non-cosmetic, do so. Tell her how impressed you are with her handling of a difficult situation, or her patience in a stressful area, or her creativity in resolving an issue. Tell her how you appreciate the decisions she made on specific issues. Let her share her day and her accomplishments with you, and listen to the many choices, decisions and frustrations she faced. Appreciating her intellect, her giving nature, her negotiation skills, etc. can help her recognize that not only are you really listening to her, but that you appreciate her as a person, as well.

*Gifts and Thoughtful Gestures*
A heartfelt gift can be an incredibly romantic thing. For those of you on a budget, romance does not have to mean big budgets. One man I know left cards for his wife every day for a week when she was struggling with an issue at work, telling her how much he loved her and appreciated her. She shared that this was a real source of strength for her as she dealt with the problems during the day, giving her self-esteem a much-needed boost.

Sometimes the presentation of the gift can be as important as the gift itself, too. Flowers grabbed in the grocery store and flung at your partner with a “These were on sale” comment may show you care, but a lot of the potential impact is lost in the process. Even an inexpensive grocery store bouquet can be a romantic gesture if presented correctly. Accompanied by a kiss, present the flowers to your partner with a smile, and a gracious compliment. Something like, “I saw these and couldn’t resist getting them for you to brighten up the kitchen. Can I stick them in some water for you?” will do just fine, if you aren’t the naturally romantic type.

One caveat – most women don’t appreciate having gifts associated with sex. Even if the sex was stunning, try to make sure your gifts are presented as tokens of your appreciation for her giving nature, or your growing love for her, or a wonderful weekend together. Tied in with a sincere compliment about something non-sexual, if possible. Gifts tied to sex can make a woman feel cheap and used; while a gift for the same weekend presented “because you’re always so fun to be with” carries a far more positive connotation.
One of the most thoughtful gifts you can give a woman is your time and your attention. Listen to her, what she likes and dislikes. Ask her to tell you about her day, and then listen. Don’t’ interrupt or tune her out, and don’t try to “fix” her problems for her (unless she asks you to intervene). Just listening to her and offering sympathy and caring, laughter and sharing, will tell her that she’s important to you. Take an afternoon off and go have a picnic in the park together. Get a babysitter and go out for a romantic dinner, or ask her for a list of five things she wants to do and try to hit two or three of them. The most important thing is not how much money you spend, it’s the time you spend with her and the fact that you are making her your priority for that time.

Most women would love to have more time, attention and interest from their husbands and boyfriends. Although there are obviously exceptions, the fact is that the “romance” fades from most relationships as time and outside demands wear on the couple. I hope that these tips have given you some ideas on how you can put a little of the romance back into your relationship!

So ladies, what do "YOU" think???

A Tribute to Woman, Beautiful!!!

Thu, 11 Jan 2007 19:44:50 GMT

This is a statement of woman for woman that I composed and that was composed out of my love for women to stand as a positive force towards their attitude and overall self-esteem. It is meant to foster confident, a strong sense of self, and an overall positive self-image. I wrote this for woman, for woman I love. It is for all the Beautiful Women of the world and especially for all the women that I love and shall love. May it serve as a positive force towards good in their lives!!!

Tribute to Woman, Beautiful!!!

A Beautiful, Strong, Liberated Woman, Free, Spirited and Free Thinking, is like a Delicate but Wild flower. She needs to be rooted in love, showered with affection, and given room to grow. You need to allow her the freedom to dream, and she needs to be lovingly supported, if she should try to pursue and fulfill those dreams. She needs to be dotingly cared for and not forcefully controlled. She needs the man in her life to be her rock and not her anchor. She needs his love to be freeing and not confining. She needs to be given wings, in order to fly, soar, into her womanhood and towards her dreams, and if she should happen to fall short of all she wants to be and or do, with or in her life, she needs the security of knowing that her partner, her man, significant other, will be right there, always, to catch her, if she should fall and to pick her up, if she should need to be. She wants, needs, her intellect to be respected and her heart to never be neglected. Never take her for grantednor for a fool. Respect and love her, always. Give your best to her, and you shall get the best from her. If you love her, show it, be there with fervent, sensual passion, loving, tender, doting care and never-ending support. For, she does not need a man’s love to make her world, what she needs is a man, a love that makes her world better!!!

Never forget, that you are an Extraordinary Woman, a woman of Quality and Substance. You are Beautiful, You’re Special, You’re Smart, Sophisticated, and Savvy, A woman of Grace, Femininity, Class, Elegance, Style, Sex Appeal, and Vivacity. You are a Witching, Wonderful, Worthwhile Woman, A Most Perfect Symphony of Everything that a Woman Should be, Genteel, yet, Strong. Of woman, you are the very best. Expect the best from yourself, always, and know, nothing less than the best you deserve. Love and respect yourself, always, and demand nothing less than that from others, and except nothing less than that from your man!!!

All my love,

Robert

Always Love & Value Yourself!!!

To woman, Beautiful, with love,

Robert Gardiner

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My Love Style and How I Am In Bed!!!

Wed, 10 Jan 2007 23:57:31 GMT

What's your Love Style?

Evaluation:
The Hopeless Romantic

Your love style is Eros. You view love as a beautiful and sensual experience. As a result, you place much value on love and when you find it, you become intensely focused on making things work between you and your partner. Because of how passionately you feel about love, you are at risk of living in a fantasy world when you fall for someone. The best thing you can do is to find a balance between your passion and reality.

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How Good are You in Bed?

EVALUATION: Sex Monkey Supreme!

You are GREAT in bed! Fulfilling your lover's needs is as important as fulfilling your own. You enjoy being "in the moment" - the sensations, the shared experience - and know how to achieve true intimacy. Congratulations!

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How To Write "Great" Romantic Love Poetry...

Thu, 26 Oct 2006 14:29:26 GMT

Writing "Great" Romantic Love Poetry!!!
~ A How To Guide ~

Writing a 'great' love poem starts with your theme (subject), the concept, idea, feeling or material/physical object that your poem shall center around. If you’re wring about a person (or anything for that matter), asks yourself what do I want to express about this person (thing). If you’re writing to a person, asks yourself what I want to say, express, to this person. Asks yourself, as well, also, how can I best do as such, best bring my message across and make it expressive of my true sentiments.

The key is, after you have your theme/subject is to build upon it, build around it. You have to build or built up your poem, layer it with the sentiment, expressiveness, authenticity, of what you’re trying to get across. What you want to do is use words, imagery, metaphors, and such, that modify your subject, theme, such as descriptive phrases, adjectives, adverbs, nouns and alike. You must write not only to say but to express. You want to express that love, express that adoration, admiration, affinity. You want to express that of which has you so captivated, captured. You want to capture that emotion, feeling, and if it’s the beauty of your muse that has you captured so, then, your poem needs to be expressive of that beauty.

In your poem, no matter what it is you’re trying to impart, you want a congruence of expression, symmetry, in and of what you’re trying to voice, affirm. One of the hallmarks of a "great" romantic love poem or any 'great' poem for that matter is how well everything corresponds and/or reflexes, one another and is woven together - that is to say, that everything in the poem highlights or modifies each other, one another, and work together well. So, when you're writing a love poem - most especially if you're trying to write a "great" one - you want it to flow well, have rhythm. As I mentioned before, you want the poem to have symmetry, congruence. You, also, want to give your poem a tone and diction expressive of what you're trying to articulate, convey.

Everything in your poem must work together. Every word, phrase, line, of you poem needs to express, be expressive ofthat beauty, that love, adoration, admiration, infatuation, affinity that holds you. It’s not the emotion that makes a 'great' love poem 'great' but the expressiveness of it. Stating something can attest someone to it, but expressing it, allows them to feel it. The better one can express the sentiment in and of a poem, the better that poem will be. Don’t just say, “She is beautiful” or “I love her”, rather expound of that, example: “she is as beautiful as the sun setting, with orange glow, over the most picturesque landscape of beautiful garden foliage, yet, still, this does not capture nor compare to the beauty of my love.” Now, we have a picture in our minds of just how beautiful she is, and can somewhat come to understand the opulent splendor of her beauty, or instead of just simply, “I love her” say “I love her, as the flower love being kissed, by the sunlight and showered, by the rain, soaking in their life giving essence, and as the flowers get life, from those things, so does she give life to me." See, the key in trying to write a great love poem is expression, the expression and expressiveness of whatever it is that’s you're trying to resonate through and within your poem (being that of emotion, feeling, sentiment and such). It is not the sentiment in and of a romantic love poem that separates a 'great' one from the others but how well that sentiment, feeling, emotion is expressed!!! All great love poems in some facet or form are well expressed. I would say, from my experience as a lover of romantic poetry and as a romantic poet myself that the number one key to a "great" love poem is the beauty, in and of its expression and how well that beauty is translated, expressed, in an elegant, eloquent, and artistic manner!!!

It's not what you express, but how (or how well) you express it!!!

Largely, what makes a "great" love poem "great" is its ability to captivate the reader and make the reader wish they where that person being adored, doted upon, to make the reader wish for a love like the one - of which they are reading. A 'great' love poem is a stirring love poem!!!

Lure of Aphrodite!!!

Mon, 25 Jul 2005 18:38:35 GMT

Aphrodite:

Goddess of Love, Beauty, Romance, Grace, Sex, Physical Attraction, Sexual Rapture, Desire, Seduction, Sweet-talk, Flirtation, Sex Appeal, Pleasure & Happiness

Appearance: Gorgeous, perfect, eternally young woman with a beautiful body.

Symbol or Attribute: Her Allure, which has magical powers to compel love.

Strengths: Potent sexual attractiveness, dazzling beauty.

Weaknesses: A bit stuck on herself, but with a perfect face and body, who can blame her?

Patron of: Physical attraction; Sexual desire; Sexual ecstasy; Sex; Marital relations; Romantic love; Lovers; Physical beauty; Happiness; Laughter; Pleasure; Joy; Parties and festivities

Favour: Sexual attraction; Love; Beauty; Pleasure and happiness

Aphrodite is the well-known goddess of love, beauty, sex appeal, and seductive power. She is the pure erotic impulse, pure libido, pure imagination, fertility, fruitfulness. Beauty is her quintessence; her nakedness is glorified. She is adored and adorned as feminine consciousness integrated in the body as instinctive wisdom with the interconnecting capacity for deep-felt emotion. Her presence is both electric and magnetic. She is always friendly and intimate. She inherently possesses the qualities of grace, charm, desire, plus a bright and lucid consciousness. She is a goddess of passion, pleasure, sensuality, affection, as well as sensitivity, devotion, and inspiration. She can manifest as artistic and aesthetic inspiration, the desire to give birth to something remarkable. She has a magical allure that compels anyone she wishes to desire her. She is flirtatious, coquettish, and a master at the art of courting. She can charm anyone, everyone, even the gods. Her charms are so powerful that she can turn even wise men to talking foolishly.

Aphrodite is an enchanting sexual fantasy. Her allure is nearly universal. She appeals to man, generally, by reflecting his personal anima, or unique idea of his "perfect woman." She unconsciously knows just what to do to appeal to him. This attraction includes seduction, flattery, and inspiration. Her primal magic is enchantment. As the Goddess of love and beauty, she could attract, woo, and win, any heart she sought. She is desire personified in an alluring image. Sexual desire and amorous pleasure function as her aphrodisiacs , which she uses to entice, titillate, and arouse. She is the personification of perfectionand the engenderment of enchantment, irresistibility. The mere thought of her induces longing. She possesses great beauty, with an incredible wit, and a witching wile. Everything about her rains of wonder and resounds with rapture. She is the quintessence of womanhood, in beauty, grace, charm, and feminine lure. Her wile’s of a most witching wonder. She embodies all that defines feminine perfection!!!

The Mighty Aphrodite Love Goddess of great Greek myths, Enchantress, of ancient times, the Embodiment of Femininity and Womanhood and the Quintessential Woman!!! Ladies, which of you embodies her today???

References:

http://zero-point.tripod.com/pantheon/Aphrodite.html

http://www.theoi.com/Summary/Aphrodite.html

Characteristic/Properties of a Nice Ass!!!

Wed, 04 May 2005 21:30:11 GMT

"DAMN!"

"NICE ASS!!!"

~What makes for a "NICE ASS!!!" on a woman!!!~

What makes for a nice ass? Well, the simple answer is symmetry, form, and structure, but what makes great symmetry, form, and structure. One thing that does is curvature and roundness. A great ass or at least a nice one has defined curves. It is Rounded - at both top and bottom or at the very least at its bottom point. A nice ass falls beautifully (has an attractive fall) and has a well-contoured form. It is aesthetically appealing and has a seemly silhouette. It is full, round, shapely, taut, firm, andhigh, voluptuous (in its appearance), but yet, still, compact. Now, of the butts that would qualify under these guidelines, there are two, “THE APPLE BOTTOM” and “THE TEARDROP/ASS SMILE.”

APPLE BOTTOM: Nicely Curved and Contoured, is compact and has a natural lift. It is Rounded, with a Curvature at the Top and Bottom (curvature of butt cheeks giving you a 180 or 360 degree angle). The tops of the ass cheeks (coming off of the lower-back) have to be ROUND and so do the bottom of the ass cheeks (coming off of the back of the thighs). When a lady has this, if she stands straight up, you can clearly see her APPLE BOTTOM as it looks like her butt is two volleyballs.

TEARDROP/ASS SMILE: (Teardrop with an Ass Smile) Similar in structure to an Apple Bottom, where the bottom of the ass is defined and round (is called the Ass Smile- because it looks like a smile but done with the cheeks and lips below a ladies waist), except, the top part of the ass (coming off of the lower-back), isn't really defined or runs directly off of the back with no major BUMP. The TEAR DROP isn't a bad thing. The top of the ass IS still sloped greater than 45 degrees where the ass IS NOT flat at all, just that it does not have the full qualification to be an Apple Bottom (what are you going to call it, a half an apple bottom???). The shape at the bottom of the ass is still rounded (Ass Smile), but the overall ass looks like a TEAR DROP (sloped with a nice round finish and in contour with waistline).

There’s also another type of ass call “THE GRIMACE” this is not considered to be a nice ass. THE GRIMACE is when the bottom of the ass cheek fails to be well rounded off, neither meeting the requirements of an Apple Bottom, nor Tear Drop/Ass Smile. When you look at the bottom of the ass, a completely round bottom of the butt cheeks is cut short of reaching to the hip, thus it's a quarter-circular shape that ends up being BLENDED INTO THE HIP FAT AND BACK FAT, causing a Grimace-like affect of the cheeks, like one you make with your mouth when you're not happy but disgusted.

The Hip measurement of a “NICE ASS” should be optimally no smaller than 34 inches and no larger than 42 inches.

Some of the infomation courtesy of the Assmatrix.com

Related Journal:

The Perfect Female Butt/Ass!!!

http://journals.aol.com/rgamorous/AestheticsDiary/entries/466

Rules of Attraction/Compatibility!!!

Wed, 04 May 2005 22:43:49 GMT

Rules of Attraction/Compatibility!!!

A Good Rapport: Having a harmonious relationship -with give and take-wherein communication flows freely and the parties involved have a mutual understanding of one another and relate well.

Mental Chemistry: it is important to a relationship and its survival to have mutual mental stimulation, to be mentally stimulated by your partner, that the parties involved are mentally compatible and able to communicate on a mental level. When the passion dies down and animalistic desires stop being the driving force of your relationship, that relationship has to be sustained in other ways, communication being one of them, and if you’re bored by your partners mental aptitude, their ability to effectively carry on a conversation, you’re soon to be bored, by them, thusly, you must have some sort of mental rapport, chemistry, to carry your relationship, when the intoxicating highs of love wane, die down!!!

Physical Attraction/Chemistry: that the person you are involved with be someone that you find physically attractive and by whom you are physically roused, stimulated, that this person be someone you have a physical attraction to and for and find stirring.

A Mutual Affinity for one another: that you both have a mutual/shared interest, attraction, liking, of one another.

An Emotional Connection: that you have strong feelings of love, caring, devotion, and kinship, towards each another.

Amorous feelings of Attraction/Affinity towards one another: that you’re strongly attracted to one another, with feelings of sexual love, desire, and affection, that you’re enamored of each other.

Sexual Compatibility: that you and your partner be on a similar sexual level, that your affinity of the sexual be in and of the same range, and your sex drives be in close proximity of one another’s.

A Soul Kinship: that you share a likeness of soul, spirit, being, that your essential essence be similar, and you possess a spiritual connection, a compatibility of souls.

These are the rules of attraction/compatibility, as I see them. If you agree, disagree, or feel some rules are missing, were left out, let your voice be heard. Feel freeto add some additional or comment on the existing…

My Personality Profile

Wed, 11 Jan 2006 02:40:49 GMT

Advanced Global Personality Test Results

Extraversion |||||||||||||||||| 80%

Stability |||||||||||||||||||| 90%

Orderliness |||||||||||| 46%

Accommodation |||||||||||| 50%

Interdependence |||||||||||||||||| 76%

Intellectual |||||||||||||||||| 76%

Mystical |||||||||||||||||| 76%

Artistic |||||||||||||||||||| 83%

Religious |||||||||||||||||||| 83%

Hedonism |||| 16%

Materialism |||||||||||||||||||| 83%

Narcissism |||||||||||||| 56%

Adventurousness |||||||||| 36%

Work ethic |||||||||||||||||||| 83%

Self absorbed |||||||||||||||| 63%

Conflict seeking |||| 16%

Need to dominate |||| 16%

Romantic |||||||||||||||||||| 90%

Avoidant |||||||||| 36%

Anti-authority |||| 16%

Wealth |||||| 30%

Dependency |||||| 23%

Change averse |||||||||||||| 56%

Cautiousness |||||||||| 36%

Individuality |||||||||||| 50%

Sexuality |||||||||||||||||||| 90%

Peter pan complex |||||||||| 36%

Physical security |||| 16%

Physical fitness |||||||||||||| 57%

Histrionic |||||||||||||||| 63%

Paranoia |||| 16%

Vanity |||||||||||||||||||| 90%

Hypersensitivity |||||| 30%

Female cliche |||||||||||| 43%

Stability results were very high which suggests you are extremely relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic.

Orderliness results were medium which suggests you are moderately organized, hard working, and reliable while still remaining flexible, efficient, and fun.

Extraversion results were high which suggests you are overly talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting at the expense too often of developing your own individual interests and internally based identity.