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Tuesday, March 4, 2008
11:11:00 AM CST
Feeling Happy

Good morning My jland friends

feeling betterI am feeling a little better today, I had a hard time yesterday with breathing and I gained like 17 lbs since I have been on Pain meds , so last night I stopped the meds and lost 4 lbs this morning of fluid , wth ... I was miserable most of the night and didn't get to sleep til 3 am .. I am going to go back on the midol and see if it will help me get thru til I go to the hospital ugh I am the only person I know gains when they are sick ..

Snowing I went to bed last night with terrible rain and woke up this morning with snow and ice everywhere ... where is summer oh summer where art thou...

 opinions my opinions meThis comment was left for me yesterday on My I have a rant entry. I have to respond I am just like that

Comment from manda2177 | 3/3/08 5:41 PM | Do you have children? yes I have 3 beautiful children , which are now teenagers and they never fell out of a shopping cart.. I also have 28 god children which I have helped raise and they have never fell out of shopping carts when in my care. I find the way that you passively aggrresively attacked that mother to be rude and disrespectful.  You are entitled to your opionion and should of stopped here .

It is perfectly acceptable to have an opinion on how children should be raised. Thank you for realizing this. You should then implement it into raising your OWN children.This is where I feel you went too far . You obviously don't read full journals only occasional entries or you would of known I have children and that I am a great mother..  It is hurtful and cruel to be so incredibly judgemental of other. I wonder are you the person who sees a child being abuse and walk right by , I am talking abuse too ,not discipline are you the type of person who believes that you shouldn't get involved. well  I feel it is our obligation to protect the children ...and if I am wrong well then I am going to be wrong I truly believe there would be a lot less child abuse if more people got involved ...

Please, please reconsider how you judge and attack other people.  You do not know everything about them and why they do what they do.
I feel you should practice what you preach here.And please give me one good reason A mother would have for endangering the life of her child?

God bless-
Amanda
God bless you Amanda and stop by anytime. I do not delete bad comments , I only respond to the ones I feel so compassionate about and this subject I am very compassionate about. If my approach is wrong my heart isn't maybe next time I should walk up to a perfect stranger and say something directly to them .. I am not above doing that either if it protects a baby from being seriously hurt or killed.
Protect Children
 
 happy Now on a happier note : Thank all of you for the great comments and birthday wishes for baby girl .. she is loving that phone..I think I may of over did it this last weekend and that is why I am having a hard time getting my getty up to go ...
 
With the fluid retention that I am having, I really can't judge my progress so what I am going to do it stay on plan , watch what I eat as closely as I can, and get as much exercise that I can tolerate and wait for this phase of my journey to be over.. there is no since in crying over spilt milk or giving up when your body is not cooperating if your mind is in the game , sometimes the body is slow to follow so keep plugging along and you will get there .
quitting is not an option! I am worth it .
 My weight this morning 263.7 lbs hopefully I will be back in the 250's by friday... can you imagine how much I am going to gain when I am in the hospital they won't let me get up and move around ugh ...PRAY FOR ME PLEASE !!!
 
 
Well I have to go I will check in latter have a good day and take it one bite , one meal, one step,one day, one pound at a time.
hugs
Sherry
 


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  • #10 Comment from adonnainparis 
    3/5/08 1:23 PM Permalink
    Sorry you got a comment that was kind of upsettling.  I think you responded very well to it.  

    Sorry about the being sick, too.  I am surprised you even feel like writing.  Thanks for taking the energy to keep us updated!
    Donna
  • #9 Comment from candlejmr 
    3/5/08 7:39 AM Permalink
    I have often made comments about kids standing in shopping carts too.  I usually speak directly to the kid...in a way that the parent can hear...and say something like "Oh sweetie, be careful, you don't want to fall out of the cart and hit your head!" and the mother will usually pick up on it.  I HAVE had one mom seem annoyed, but I couldn't tell if she was annoyed at me for saying something...or annoyed at the kid for not sitting down!  So, I don't think it's wrong at all.  Sometimes parents with young kids get overwhelmed and don't realize what's going on in that moment.

    I KNOW you are so miserable about not feeling well!!!  I reallu hope you can go in the hospital and get this all taken care of COMPLETELY so you can go on with your life and ENJOY and FEEL GOOD!!!!

    ((HUGS))
    Jeanne
  • #8 Comment from nelishianatl 
    3/4/08 9:27 PM Permalink
    I am glad you are feeling somewhat better today.  You handled yourself fine in the 'rant' matter.  Sometimes the direct approach these days can get yourself in legal trouble.  I don't see how anyone could just walk by and do nothing when a child is at risk or in danger.  I would have spoke directly to the lady though at any rate.  I'm glad you are one to do something and not ignore it.  
    Hope you have a pain free week,

    NELISHIA
    http://journals.aol.com/nelishianatl/PRAYINGANDBELIEVING/

  • #7 Comment from jimsulliv3 
    3/4/08 6:11 PM Permalink
    I guess I'm fortunate they didn't read the winners of the CAT award on Monday, because winners-b-them.

    Jimmy
  • #6 Comment from my3gifts 
    3/4/08 4:56 PM Permalink
    First time I'm here, but being that I'm a regular reader of Amanda and not yours I'm just going to take a stab that she felt you could have went about it differently, and kinder. I read your post and you weren't direct to the mother, instead did it in more of a passive agressive manner  I guess my thoughts are is you could have gently went up to the mother and said something to the manner of what you had witnessed in the past of the little 18 month old and that you'd hate to have that happen to her and her child.  I'm guilty of being passive aggressive as much as the next person and it seems that's what you were being, since you wrote you were saying it "loudly" to your dad vs saying it directly to the mother.

    We never know what another person's going through, what their day's been like, etc. Did it mean that Mom wanted something bad to happen to her child, most likely not...but she could have simply been having a horrible day (you remember I'm sure what life was like with toddlers not always peaceful or stress-less and simply put sometimes you just do what you can to get through and sometimes your brain is fried, especially in WalMart!!).

    Just a different perspective. Sometimes we don't know what others are dealing with and when someone's making comments towards us vs to us, it could be what breaks someone for the day.
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