The most beautiful wedding from hell continued...
The most beautiful wedding from hell continued...
Sam woke up about 6am and ordered breakfast for us, then started a fire in the fireplace... I woke up to the best looking room service I had ever seen and we had the best suite in the house overlooking the crochet lawn... He sure knew how to make last night seem like a bad dream... So peaceful...
"Honey when we get home I am buying down everything... that bed is like sleeping in a cloud!" This room feels like heaven!!! We had just finished eating when the phone rang...
It was Kim and she was crying he hadn't come home all night...
"Wait... WHAT?"
"When we came back to our suite... we got in a huge fight..He threw the wedding ring at me and said he was getting the marriage annulled today!"
"Oh my god... I'll be right over"
What a jerk... I wanted to kill him... He obviously didn't want to get married but didn't have what it takes to be a man about it... He wanted Sam to do his dirty work by telling me his comments, by me telling Kim they would have a huge fight and then he would back out... Only... I never told her the things he said and he couldn't do it... Oh how I wanted to call him every name in the book! As I walk into their suite she is sobbing uncontrollably, "It's all my fault if I hadn't drank so much... this never would have happened" "Kim you weren't falling down drunk just happy buzzed feeling good" "The way he tells it I was drooling on everyone about to pass out on the cake" I am getting really angry now... He can't even be a man and say he didn't want to get married... He has to blame her, make her feel as if it is all her fault... I wanted to tell her what he did the day before... but really what was so wrong? Made a comment to Sam about a girl [she would feel more hurt] told her he needed a babysitter for his kids [she was already devastated] They were going to get an annullment anyway... Thank God!!!!! So I kept my mouth shut and listened to her cry and blame herself all day... It killed me inside... This wasn't her fault... I kept wanting to say something but what did I have to tell her? Tell her my theory of what he was trying to do... He would easily explain it all away "Kim it was a couple of comments between guys... Sam should keep his mouth shut when he goes with the boys..." It was awful... Hours ticked slowly by... I kept waiting for the jerk to return and see Sam & I babysitting his soon to be annulled bride.... but he never did... I couldn't believe this was happening! I was heartbroken for her... She was starting to calm down and get sleepy... After all she had just spent her wedding night alone, awake, and hysterical! Where was he anyway? Sam & I had to get going or we would miss our flight home... We said our goodbyes with a heavy heart... I saw Kim's Mom as we walked to our car... "So, how's everything at the honeymoon suite?" I could tell she didn't want to know... she seemed grateful someone else was handling it... She told me I did a great job... If I hadn't been crying with Kim all day I probably would have burst into to tears... I was feeling like I failed my duties... she let me know I didn't... I was so gratful! She hugged Sam told us thank you for everything... We said thank you for the suite etc... Got in the car and drove away... about 3 miles down the road I told Sam to pull over I was going to be sick... Which I was... It was that bad... I guess they worked it out because a few months later Kim calls all happy... They were together... I never brought it up again... I was really happy I never said anything then... but I really didn't like him... As the months passed he would play mind games with her, make her think she was crazy... I tried my best to talk to her... she wouldn't listento me... he had an answer for everything... why he never came home all night... She couldn't see what he was doing...
opps to be continued again...
slyracing1 at 11:24:00 AM PDT Blog about this entry
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Hey, it's me, Kim,
the bride of the most beautiful wedding from hell. Now I'm going through the nastiest divorce/ custody battle from hell. -
You really do have self-control...I would have been all over him...and not in a good way...hehe!
Lori -
Poor Kim. He sounds like a real looser.
Ellen -
Oh my word! What an awful story! It sounds like something out of a movie. I wouldn't know what to do in that situation. How sad....
Kara
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