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Thursday, January 18, 2007
Subject: Pillow Talk
Time: 1:32:37 AM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
I do my share of online and/or on air shopping. I love a good bargain and I love unique things. Here's something that recently caught my eye on one of my favorite online shopping sites. I realized an hour ago that yesterday was the last day I could have bought it at an additional 25% off of the existing sale price. So I'll be watching to see if the price drops or another promotion is offered. I'd like to add it to my pillow collection. Currently I have a pillow that reads "Eat Drink and Remarry" and another that reads "Coffee - cheaper than Prozac." If you click here and I'll show you a picture I took of those pillows back on 1/4/04. This pillow is 16 inches square. (I didn't realize I'd had the other pillows so long.....so its time I added something to my pillow talk collection).
I really should go to bed. The weather has cleared up so there will be no excuse for not going to the office tomorrow!
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Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Subject: I think Mother Nature got lost!
Time: 2:31:23 PM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
I honestly believe this is the most consecutive number of bad/winter weather days I've experienced since I moved to the Dallas/Ft Worth area almost 17 years ago. We usually have one bad ice storm during the winter season and that's it as far as inclement weather. We just had an ice storm a few weeks ago. I heard there was plenty of cold weather here while Ikenna and I were in Nigeria. Last week we had another ice storm...it never really warmed up since then and today we have snow....not just flakes (like we normally get) but it has actually accumulated! All of the major school districts are closed. Our campus at work is even closed. Heck my co-workers in Poland emailed me that they are having Spring-like weather over there. That's why I think Mother Nature got lost/or misdirected. She's sending the wrong stuff to the wrong people . I'm sure all of the kids in the neighborhood would disagree with me.
I saw one kids laying in my driveway this morning making snow angels. Most of the houses on this block have young kids. Since Ikenna and I hadn't ventured out yet, our driveway was the only 'untouched' one...so Jacob made snow angels while his older sister was taking pictures with her digital camera. Just a few minutes ago I looked out my window and saw Jacob's younger sister, Sarah standing by my bushes gathering snow for snowballs. These kids have virtually cleared my sidewalk and driveway for me getting snow for their snowball fights and snowmen!
I had sent out an email that I would be working from home today before I learned that our campus was closed ..the first message they sent at 6:23 this morning was that the campus would delay opening until 10am...then at 8:45am they sent out the update that the campus would be closed....now I'm asking myself if the campus is closed if I should be working or not 
Maybe I'll just browse some of my favorite shopping websites. Yesterday (while I was at work) I went on a site where I've been eying this beautiful silver stripes porcelain fishbowl planter for months. The only reason I hadn't bought it yet was because it cost $199.00...I couldn't bring myself to part with that kind of money. Yesterday I was delightfully alarmed when I saw it on clearance for $38.98...so you know it's on it's way to me now. The planter is 13" high x 16" deep. Even with the added $9.99 shipping charge it's well worth it (no sales tax though). There's a plant in my formal living room that is dying to go in this pot. I'll post a picture after it arrives. At this price I should buy another one in a different style for my family room....problem is I don't have any plants in there...so I'd have to buy a plant to put in it .
Now that I got such a great deal on that planter I'd been after I'm hopeful that the mobile phone I want to upgrade to will be advantageously priced by the time I buy it. I've been wanting to upgrade my phone for a while now. I almost did it before we went to Nigeria, but I was afraid I might lose it or leave it there. So I decided to wait. My wireless contract is up at the end of this month. When I called Cingular the other day, the sales person happened to mention that if I wait until June, I can get the new iPhone. It will only be available through Cingular. That phone is one serious piece of technology. If you didn't already read about it after it was featured recently at the Consumer Electronics Show in Vegas, then click here and see why I'm going to try my best to wait it out and grab this phone in June. I know its going to be costly, but maybe I'll save some income tax return money I really don't want to hold on to my old phone until then but this new phone will be so revolutionary that I think I would switch to Cingular to get it if I wasn't already on that network
I guess its a good thing my cell phone didn't work while we were in the village. I just viewed my bill online. I made 10 calls (three of those were to my voicemail/one that Ikenna accidentally dialed)..5 from Lagos and 5 from the airport in France. I called my sister at each arrival point to let her know that we got there safely. I did get through to heronce from Rhoda and Godwin's phone to let her know were we had reached the village. Funny thing was that I could dial my voice mail while we were in the village. But I couldn't dial anywhere else. It was the exact opposite experience that my brother had when he was in India in November. He could make calls except to his voice mail. Anyway, the total for my international calls was $43.80.
OK I've got a couple of gigantic pork chops in the oven so I'd better get the rest of the meal going.
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Saturday, January 13, 2007
Subject: I love the new AOL Photos features!
Time: 2:14:47 PM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
Since we're about to have a doozy of an ice storm that could last from tonight through Monday, I'll have plenty of time to do some more entries about our trip and to play around with the new photo features. I have a new entry in my Nigeria Journal. Please Click Here To Go There
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Thursday, January 11, 2007
Subject: Jennifer would call this 'rambling', Pam would have called it 'headnoise.'
Time: 6:32:28 AM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
It's funny how things change...people change...thoughts/feelings change....
When Levi died (9/05) we had been divorced for about 8 years. His family wanted Ikenna and me to attend the burial. I wasn't pushing to make it happen for several reasons....I wasn't eager to make the long trip, I didn't want Ikenna's next trip to Nigeria to be such a sad one; it was going to be over final exam time for Ikenna and the school would not let him take his exams early, the cost of the tickets wasn't really in my budget (although Levi's brothers on the East Coast offered to buy our tickets) and I was madly in love with Mark..our romance was relatively new and I didn't want to leave him....and it would mean being away from home for Christmas. It was Ikenna's school schedule that caused Levi's family to not force the issue. And we said we'd do our best to be in Nigeria when the family marked the one year anniversary of Levi's burial. It was easy for me to say that then....but as the year wore on, I wasn't sure I wanted to go. It was around the Spring of last year when Godwin started talking to me about the importance of making sure that Levi's property be preserved for Ikenna so that when he is of age he can decide if he either wants to keep it or give it away. Godwin told me (over the phone) that he wanted to make sure that we did everything we needed to do so that Ikenna would be in a position to make his own decision at the proper time.
I agreed with him, but I still wasn't 100 percent mentally committed to the idea of traveling to Nigeria. Godwin and Rhoda wanted to discuss it in person. Knowing I have standby flight privileges on American, they suggested Ikenna and I come to Connecticut and spend a weekend with them. When I didn't seem to get that going in a timely fashion, they decided to come here and visit us. They hadn't see our new home and they hadn't visited us here since Ikenna was a baby. So they bought tickets and flew out in September. It was during their visit that Godwin had told me that the Eze had said he wanted Ikenna brought to his palace so that he could meet his friend Levi's son and be a part of the transfer of property. The Eze told Godwin that he wanted to tape Ikenna's visit with him so that Ikenna could have it as a keep sake. That's when I knew I had to put aside any anxiety I had about making the trip because it really wasn't about me, it was all about Ikenna. In the beginning I didn't care much about a house and land in Nigeria because Ikenna and I don't live there and aren't ever likely to go there often...but again it wasn't about me, it was about Ikenna....his future.....his heritage and what he might want to do in the future. That land has been in his father's family for generations and if he chooses, it will be something that Ikenna can pass on to his children.
We started checking online while they were here and couldn't find any reasonably prices. So Rhoda (who is retired) got busy looking for good prices on the tickets when they flew back to Connecticut. We were planning everything around Ikenna's school Christmas break. When she called me a few days after they flew home to say she had found a good deal on Air France, she booked the reservation and surprised me by saying she and Godwin would pay for them because they wanted to make things easy for us. That as a wonderful unexpected surprise and it was the moment that I knew that the trip was meant to be and that I no longer had any reason to worry.
Over the course of the next few months I realized that I would still incur considerable expenses obtaining passports, visas, immunizations and things we would need to travel with. Over the last 30 years working in the airline industry, 98 percent of my trips have been using my standby perks. So I'm used to traveling cheap. The cost of this trip for the two of us (tickets..passports and all) was over $5,000.00. Thank goodness we didn't have any hotel expenses! I always think of something exotic or extravagant for that kind of money...a trip to some tropical island or a cruise  Up until the day we left Ikenna wasn't thrilled about spending all but 2 days of his Christmas vacation away from home....away from his buddies. I honestly almost called Nigeria the morning we were leaving to say we weren't coming. That would have been a huge mistake. The fact that we would leave our house around noon on December 19th and not actually reach the village until sometime on the afternoon of the 21st (long flights and long lay overs) was mentally exhausting, but we knew we had to do it. Ikenna went straight from school to the airport..he got out of school at 10:30am on December 19th and we left for the airport at 12:30! When we got to the village and received all of the love and joy of everyone who came to greet us, it was all so worth it. Yep it's funny how things change....lots of the reasons I hadn't wanted to travel the previous year were still the same...long trip, there was still some sadness associated with it (the memorial service) and although there was no longer a romance between me and Mark we've still been talking on the phone every day and I truly wondered how I was going to deal with being out of touch with him....but we certainly knew that at $3.49 a minute, we weren't going to be talking while I was away. He did try to call me a few times, but my cell phone didn't work in the village and I hadn't given him Rhoda and Godwin's phone number.....even if I had, that phone network over there is very unreliable...probably because they just don't have enough towers. I was thrilled when I got to Paris and found I had 5 messages from Mark...trying to call. My phone worked in Lagos but we were only there the night of the 20th and he didn't try to start calling until Christmas day  I actually think that two week separation was good for us  We've resumed our multiple daily phone conversations. I cancelled a lunch date with him last week because of my cold (I didn't want to give it to him) and we have a date to see a play on March 22nd! And it looks like he'll be passing through here tonight and he asked me to meet him for a late night dinner. There was a time when I swore he was trying not to see me face to face..but since I got back, this is the third time he's tried to get together.....I'm loving this......usually when he's in town, he's at their depot which is 50 miles away. But he has a delivery nearby and he and his trainee will be spending the night at a truck stop very close to my house. So we'll be meeting at the IHOP at the truck stop.....I have no idea where we're going with our 'relationship' but it's been working well as a very dear friendship. OK I guess because this turned out to be about me and Mark is why I didn't put this entry in my Nigeria journal.
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Tuesday, January 9, 2007
Subject: My banking dilemma is over!
Time: 4:20:26 AM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
FINALLY WELLS FARGO HAS PUT MY MONEY BACK IN MY ACCOUNT!
This nightmare went on from Wednesday night (1/3/07) until today! In spite of the fact that I made countless calls to both Wells Fargo and to Game Stop, no corrective action seemed to take place. What transpired is that I had to wait the three business days that it can take for a merchant hold to automatically fall off of the account.
Unfortunately for me the sale took place late Wednesday night, so the first business day was considered Thursday, the second business day was Friday...the weekend is not considered business time and then Monday was the 3rd business day. So in these wee hours of the morning Tuesday, those two merchant holds of $838.39 each finally fell off. My money is no longer being held hostage by two stupid systems that can't work with each other...a bank unwilling to believe it's customer who has banked with them for years without causing any problems....a customer who has her checking, savings and mortgage with them.
They claimed they couldn't do anything without the merchant calling in the request the holds be removed. But the merchant could never find anything in their records indicating that more than one transaction had ever taken place at the store....and the merchant could never find the authorization code given to them by the bank for the sale. And the bank would not release the two invalid merchant holds without the authorization code. Boy did I ever feel like a rat/hamster in a cage dealing with this one!
Believe me now I wish I had bought Ikenna the laptop he's been asking for...it certainly would not have cost me any more money than this did...and it certainly would not have brought on so much anxiety or so much wasted time!
If I didn't have two checks direct deposited at this bank and if I didn't have my mortgage with them, I would cancel this account. But I don't feel like going through the hassel of changing the direct deposits or trying to move my mortgage....but if anything like this ever happens again, I'll have to bank elsewhere!
Thanks for letting me vent!
Now if I can just get rid of this stupid cold all will be right with the world!
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Monday, January 8, 2007
Subject: This time last week were were enroute to the US from Nigeria.
Time: 4:47:49 PM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
I had always planned to get back to my journal about my visits to Nigeria but I never did. I was going to pick up where we took Ikenna to Nigeria when he was 9 months old in 1993. That trip happened because while I was pregnant with Ikenna Levi's father died (Nov 1991) and my mother died (Jan 1992). My father had died many years earlier...so Ikenna had only one surviving grandparent. Levi's mother was aging and we wanted her to get to see Ikenna. Levi and I had been married for 11 years before Ikenna was born. His mother asked us many times when we were going to start a family. Levi was her baby and she was anxious for him to start his family.
I had no idea then that it would be 14 years before my next visit....that I would be divorced and Levi would be dead when I went back. Many changes took place in the village.....electrity finally came to the entire village....cell phones have exploded in Nigeria.....lost of new construction in the village. Funny how things seem to have improved in the village but they seem to have drastically worsened in Lagos....
I hadn't been out of the country at all in 14 years. I was even surprised to see how much the visas have changed. The last time I went you just had a stamp in your passport. Now the visas are actually pretty and laminated into your passport. Please click on the graphic of our visas below and I'll 'transport' you to my Nigeria journal for the entry.

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Subject: Please don't let this be a sign of how my day will go!
Time: 8:58:34 AM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
I have a cold. I don't know if it's something I picked up in Nigeria -or- if I picked it up on the plane back from Paris (there were a lot of people coughing and sneezing and blowing their noses on that plane) -or- if its just my body telling me it got out of whack with the changes in time zones and temperatures and continents and diets....and of course I've got all kinds of "stuff" in me since we needed shots to go to Nigeria...we had Hep A, Typhoid, Yellow Fever, Meningitis, Polio (that was just for me...I needed a polio booster since I had my polio shots so long ago) and a flu shot.
Anyway, I got this cold...so even though I was supposed to return to work today, I decided to work from home and not spread these germs around the office. A few minutes ago I decided to spray the house with Lysol because I've been indoors for a few days nursing this cold. I reached in the cabinet in my bathroom, pulled out the can...stood in the doorway of my bedroom and sprayed around that room and also out into the hallway leading to the family room. When the mist died down and I stepped out of the doorway, I wondered why it didn't smell like Lysol. When I looked at the can I realized I sprayed the room with Scrubbing Bubbles bathroom cleanser! Geez!
So I go back into the bathroom to get the correct can and almost break my neck because the floor is slippery since I'd just sprayed a foaming cleanser into the air! Geez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sunday, January 7, 2007
Subject: Lord please let me hold on to my sanity....because I didn’t intend to pay $2,510.72 for a PS3!!!
Time: 12:16:09 PM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
I thought we were in the computerized age but you would NEVER know it by the experience I’ve been having with Wells Fargo bank and Game Stop since Wednesday night!
Some history/background
My son didn’t ask for anything this Christmas. That was very unusual! But knowing we were going to be spending Christmas in Nigeria and not knowing how it would be celebrated there probably had a lot to do with it. My in-laws are devout 7th day Adventists. After their middle son was murdered in 1993, they became a lot more spiritual and a lot less ‘worldly.’
I knew Ikenna would want something electronic for Christmas. He knew I would not want to buy it here and travel with it and risk losing it/leaving it behind. He also knew we probably wouldn’t be able to buy anything he’d want over there. Back in September when we decided to make the trip we planned to celebrate Christmas when we got back home. As it turned out our family in Nigeria doesn’t celebrate Christmas as we do. When I asked one of Ikenna’s cousin’s about it she said they feel like they don’t know what day Christ was born, so they don’t do anything special on December 25th. I did see some Christmas decorations at Lagos airport. We even saw someone dressed in a Santa Claus suit when we were there on Dec 21st flying from Lagos to Owerri. But there were no decorations in the village. Technically speaking Ikenna did get something on Christmas Day. That happens to be that day that we had the ceremony at his father’s house and his uncle officially handed over to him his father’s house and lands.
Back to the two thousand dollar+ game system! I had originally planned to try to talk Ikenna into wanting a Wii system instead of the PS3 because the Wii is much more reasonably priced. Before we left for Nigeria I knew that Ikenna was somewhat unhappy that he would be spending his entire Christmas break away from his friends and away from his comfort zone. As wonderful as our trip was, we both missed a lot about home in the States. On January 3rd he and I drove to our neighborhood Game Stop. The plan was for him to get some games for his PSP, his DS, his Game Boy, etc. But once we got there I was so proud of how he handled things when we were away that I decided to buy him the new PS3. They actually had one in stock. The system is $599.00. It only comes with one controller and no games. So that Ikenna could enjoy it with his friends, I bought an extra controller for $49.00 and a game at $49.00.
I don’t usually but the additional extended warranty plans, but I thought with the price of this thing, it would be a good idea. That warranty was $69.99. The sales person told me if we had one of their discount cards, we could save $5.00 on the game by buying a used game. That conversation was early in the sale and I had placed Ikenna’s discount card on the counter as the salesperson and I talked about other things. When he rang up the sale, which came to $838.89 and handed me the paperwork to sign, I asked him if he had taken off the $5.50 for the used game. He admitted that he’d forgotten and said he’d void the original sale and re do the new price of $832.94. That worked for me, I signed the new receipt, Ikenna was delighted to be getting his PS3 (which he knew he wouldn’t set up until the weekend because it was almost 8pm and he would be returning to school in the morning). Life was good until I went online later that night trying to order some tickets to a play and the sale wouldn’t go through. That didn’t make sense to me….until I went to Wells Fargo online and saw that my account was overdrawn by $1,300.00+. As I looked further I saw there were THREE debits from Game Stop….two for $838.89 and a third for $832.94!!!! WTF I had just paid a total of $2,510.72 for that PS3!
I called the bank first…they told me I’d have to contact the merchant. By this time it was after 10pm and the merchant was closed. The bank gave me a lot of flack about how they understood what I was saying about the voided transaction not being processed properly but they said they couldn’t take MY word for it that it really was a void instead of a sale. I asked them how they could even let the transaction go through (I had used my debit card) when there wasn’t even that much $ in my account. They told me it wasn’t based on my balance…but on the limit given to my debit/check card! Well, since this entry is getting long….I’ll abbreviate…I’m still fighting this battle. The store can’t find the approval code they were given for the sale, the bank won’t remove the two extra merchant holds without the approval code….the store doesn’t print the approval codes on the receipts and the additional $1,677.78 in charges won’t drop off automatically until after 3 business days! In the meantime my paycheck is direct deposited and that got screwed up by the overdraft when it went in early Friday morning and will be held hostage until this all gets straightened out. I am so upset….part of me understands the bank’s processing, but the part of me that needs to pay bills and doesn’t have access to my money is PISSED.
If I wasn’t an honest person, I would have just called in and said there were some unauthorized charges on my account and the bank would have handled it differently. BUT because I told the truth that the merchant incorrectly has three merchant authorization holds for one sale, the bank is NOT working with me. Please Lord, don’t let this change me…don’t let me become a schemer to try and work around the system in the future if anything like this ever happens again! If I had only known how this would play out, I would have told the salesperson to keep the $5.45 I was trying to save on the used game….who knew that $5.45 would end up costing me an extra $1,677.78.
And guess what……………Ikenna had a sleepover on Friday night. Three of his buddies were over…they set up the PS3. I asked him how he liked it….he said the system is great but he doesn’t like the game!?!#$*#)*$)!(*@)#( So we’re going to return it probably today. I was hoping I wouldn’t have to set foot in Game Stop again for a very long time. I hope the salesperson I had on Wednesday night isn’t here, I might be tempted to strangle him….but I don’t want to spend 2007 and beyond in jail!
I'm going to try to write more about our trip later, but this has just been driving me crazy for a few days now and I had to blow off some of the steam!
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Saturday, January 6, 2007
Subject: Back from Nigeria
Time: 12:55:11 PM CST
Author: viviansullinwank
Spending Christmas 06 in Nigeria was a wonderful experience and a very atypical holiday for us. We left here on December 19th knowing we had quite a journey ahead of us. My x husband's (Levi) oldest brother (Godwin) and his wife (Rhoda) had purchased the tickets for us. The best available fare to Lagos required a double connection in Cincinnati and Paris and would require a connection in Paris and Houston for our return trip. The village where we would be staying is more than 8 hours away from Lagos. There are two cities with airports reasonably close to the village. Unfortunately, one of those airports is under construction and closed. Tickets for the airline and airport (Owerri) we had to use couldn't even be purchased here in the US. So Rhoda made arrangements with some of her sister's children who live in Lagos to get the tickets for us and meet us upon arrival.
We had to spend the night in Lagos anyway because we were arriving after the last flight to Owerri. So we stayed with Rhoda's niece. Everything was well orchestrated for us. Rhoda and Godwin had left Connecticut the week before us, so they’d be waiting for us when we got to the village. It was raining in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area the day we left. That delayed our flight for over an hour. We were worried about missing our connecting flight to Paris. Thankfully several other people were making the same connection so they held the plane for us. Then since we were late leaving Cincinnati we were late arriving Paris. Once again we were blessed because another family of 4 on our plane were connecting to Nigeria and they held the plane for us. I had been warned that getting around Paris’ Charles deGaulle airport is a bit involved/awkward when you have to change terminals. That was a hassle, but we made it! This was my first time flying with Air France. Their service was pretty good. I enjoyed listening to all of the in flight announcements in French and seeing how much I actually understood before they translated everything to English.
I was disappointed to see that Lagos still looks like a forgotten city. I honestly believe that when the capital was moved from Lagos to Abuja it really was forgotten. It’s crowded and dirty and made me happy we’d be far away in a quiet village the next day. We traveled for part of three days…leaving here on the 19th, arriving Lagos on the 20th and flying to Owerri on the 21st….but it was worth it when I saw Rhoda’s face once we got through baggage claim! The drive from Owerri to the village was about an hour. In the city the streets are paved but there are no traffic signs…so that was a bit maddening. Outside of the city all of the roads are dirt roads. It’s been very dry there lately so dust is everywhere (you’ll see that on a picture of a car in my photo album).
Rhoda & Godwin kept our visit a secret so everyone in the village was very surprised and excited to see us. I’m sure Ikenna was borderline overwhelmed by all of the attention! One of his cousins virtually tackled him when she saw him. He was 9 months old the last time he had been to Nigeria…so it was a great homecoming. Ikenna’s father was very well loved by his family, friends and acquaintances. His death last year was a shock to everyone. They were very disappointed that Ikenna and I weren’t able to make the burial. I’m sure some of them didn’t think we’d be there for the memorial service this year. So it was a very good thing. I was especially grateful for how wonderful everyone treated me. When you are divorced, you don’t always get warm and fuzzies from your former in laws. But over the course of our visit much was said about tradition. Since I am the mother of Levi’s only child, who is a male child (very important in their society) and since I never remarried or had any other children, my position within the family is almost heightened. One of the traditional leaders told me that they don’t recognize divorce over there and he told me that I am a citizen there as though I had been born there. They actually expect Ikenna to bury me there 
We had a surprise waiting for us. I expected to have Ikenna constantly by my side since we didn’t really know everyone…didn’t really know our way around and because we don’t speak the dialect (although everyone who has been educated speaks the Queen’s English). I felt bad for him that he’d probably be hanging around with a bunch of adults since there isn’t really anyone his age in the village. But Rhoda and Godwin’s youngest son (Egwu) who lives in Maryland had decided to make the trip to support Ikenna. Ikenna loves both of Rhoda and Godwin’s sons. Although they’re twice his age, they’re more like older brothers to him than cousins. So Ikenna had someone he looks up to, closer to his age to hang around with. Also one of Egwu’s childhood friends who had always wanted to see Nigeria (after having lived across the street from them while growing up)…..decided to accompany Egwu on the trip. So Ikenna had two guys to hang out with, play football, talk sports. It was wonderful. Egwu and Andre arrived two days before we did and flew back to the US 3 days before us. Ikenna was a little down when they left.
This entry could become very long, so I think I’ll stop here and share my pictures here. I will probably do a separate entry later in my Nigeria journal and talk more about the day everyone was invited to Ikenna’s house for the unveiling of his father’s headstone (Levi is buried on his property….they don’t really have cemeteries)…the day we went to the palace to visit with the Eze (he’s the traditional ruler who wanted to meet Ikenna and participate in turning over Levi’s property to Ikenna) and the day everyone assembled at the house to witness Ikenna officially receive his father’s possessions (this was not only done verbally but he also received a bound document with a list of all of his father’s land properties). I'm over my jet lag, butI have a cold..so that entry may take a few days.
The picture at the top of this entry is one of my favorite photos from our trip. It is Ikenna with his uncle Godwin. As the first born male child, according to their tribal tradition, Godwin became head of the family when his father died in November of 1991. Their father was a polygamist. Levi and Godwin's mother was his first wife. She had three sons. Godwin, Gad and Levi. There was a very special bond between Levi and Godwin. I know that Godwin sees a lot of Levi in Ikenna. He loves Ikenna as if he was his own child. I've always known that. But this experience of seeing how much care Godwin has taken to see that Levi's things were preserved for Ikenna...how well he documented everything and the way he talked about him whenever he introduced Ikenna to the church as well as to people in the village...well, it brought me to tears a couple of times.
My camera battery didn't last as long as I had hoped. Although I only got about 50 pictures, Andre sent me the 100 pictures he took! They are in this link: http://www.bubbleshare.com/album/104604.8d087de83fe My pictures in the AOL album will be larger if you view the album as a slideshow; but you might not get to see the captions unless you just view the album and manually advance the pictures.
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