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The Good, the Bad & the Ugly
Well, the battle is over and I lost miserably. Who knew that I'd wind up with a judge who ignored 95% of the facts and obviously had it out for me from the get go <sigh> I was granted 3 weekends a month, with ME doing all the transportation even though I barely make enough to pay my bills. My son is the one that gets the worst end of it though, instead of living with the nuturing, loving parent that he wants, he ended up with his father (who called in his mommy to come take over my role as care giver @@
I DO love being on my own and sometimes it feels like a dream come true to not have to be bullied and treated as if I wee a child all the time. But then again, I look at the fact that I don't have my son, that due to alot of fictious crap my husband came up with, I'm now treated as if I were a criminal by his school and ex-neighbors, as well as the quack therapist that my husband has my son seeing. I mean really, what therapist worth the paper his diploma is printed on is going to actually blame the CHILD for his parents splitting up, saying this would have never happened had he been a better kid?
Sometimes I wish my husband would have loved me enough to fight for me. Seeing that he just simply threw up his hands and thought "oh well" when I left was very hurtful. Then to have him issue a restraining order on me, keeping me away from my son, it broke my heart. I have ALWAYS been my sons primary (and in most cases SOLE) caregiver and to have him yanked away from me is just more than I can bare :(
Sometimmes I feel so confused and lonely and down I'm not sure how I'll get through all this. I can spit fire towards my husband when I talk to him because I'm just so angry and hurt all at once, but deep down, I really wish he'd be my knight in shining armor that I once believed he was.
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I am truly sorry that you lost in court. Your husband sounds like a total jerk and an ignoramus. What happened to you in court reinforces my belief that there is no justice in this world for those who truly deserve it. You were your Son's primary caregiver (And even though we have never meant, I am certain you did a fine job caring for your boy), and that so-called judge awarded custody to his Father. He has custody, yet HIS MOTHER IS GOING TO BE YOUR SON'S NEW CAREGIVER??And in order for you to see your Son three weekends a month, you have to travel to see him? That Judge must have plucked his law degree out of a box of crackerjacks. As for that therapist you made mention of, your appraisal of him is 100% accurate. This quack actually blamed your Son because you and your husband split up?! Absolutely outrageous!
We've never met, yet I wish there is something I could do for you. You strike me as a truly decent gal who has gotten burned through no fault of your own by jerks and others who used you, which really stinks. And believe me, I know what it feels like to feel confused, down and lonely. Unfortunately, I don't have a solution to your situation anymore than I have a solution for the crap I am going through and I invite you to notice that you will eventually prevail over your problems just as I will eventually prevail over mine. You hang in there. -
Well, not to put too fine a point on it, your husband is a mama's boy. His lazy, stupid, half-drunken ass needs to be beat with a coal shovel. Anyone who calls in their mommy like that needs to borrow twenty bucks so they can buy a spine and actually work at trying to be a man.
Bryan is no man. He's a child. And an ugly one at that.
12/23/06 9:21 AM
I'm sorry about what happened to you. Never Give Up! Wonder Woman would never did that. Everything gets better as time goes by. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. I hope we can see some more transformations and even YouTube videos with you in the future. I love the transformations with your hair up in a bun. Happy Holidays again